Vaishnava Etiquette & Lifestyle Manual
Interactive Guide to Vaishnava Codes of Conduct & Transcendental Etiquette
Part II: Etiquette within the Temple
Cultivating the mood of humility, cleanliness, and attentiveness in the Lord's house.
The matter of this manual has been compiled from sources like
Nectar of Devotion, Nectar of Instruction and other books, letters &
instructions of Śrīla Prabhupāda and also from observations/suggestions
of various devotees.
Lord Caitanya instructed Śrila Sanātana Goswāmī about the
behaviour of a Vaiṣṇava as follows :
yadyapio tumi hao jagat-pāvana /
tomā-sparśe pavitra haya deva-muni-gaṇa//
tathāpi bhakta-svabhāva—maryādā-rakṣaṇa /
maryādā-pālana haya sādhura bhūṣaṇa //
C Antya 4.129 – 130
“My dear Sanātana, although you are the deliverer of the entire
universe and although even the demigods and great saints are purified
by touching you, it is the characteristic of a devotee to observe and
protect the Vaiṣṇava etiquette. Maintenance of the Vaiṣṇava etiquette is
the ornament of a devotee.”
maryādā-laṅghane loka kare upahāsa /
iha-loka, para-loka——dui haya nāśa //
C Antya 4.131
“If one transgresses the laws of etiquette, people make fun of him,
and thus he is vanquished in both this world and the next.”
Also Lord Caitanya Mahaprabhu gave five important instructions to
the six Goswāmis of Vṛndāvana. Based on those instructions the need
was felt to write down certain rules and regulations to meet the demands
of ever-increasing preaching mission of International Society for Krishna
Consciousness.
These instructions are as follows:
- 1 To scrutinizingly study all the revealed scriptures and extract the essence
from all and essence is bhakti.
- 2 To excavate Holy places of Kṛṣṇa’s līlā in Vṛndāvana. To make Vṛndāvana
Dhāma a place that people from all around will come to take shelter of
and be inspired by.
- 3 To build beautiful temples and to install wonderful Deities and teach the
world proper method of Deity worship.
- 4 By their personal examples to show the conduct of a Vaiṣṇava and proper
etiquette among Vaiṣṇavas. Lord Caitanya considered this to be most
important principle. Not only must we be philosophically strong but we
must understand how to have proper etiquette amongst each other; to
our superiors, to our juniors, to the Supreme Lord and to conditioned
souls.
- 5 He told them to establish Vaiṣṇava etiquette through their writings as well
as through their behaviour.
- 6 By their own personal conduct to show what are the duties of one in the
renounced order of life.
A devotee’s lifestyle should conform to the principle “Simple living,
High Thinking.”
There are many rules and regulations guiding a devotee’s life but the
purpose of them all is to help us to -
“Always remember Kṛṣṇa
Never forget Kṛṣṇa”
This is the most important rule and all others are subservient to this
one.
PART I
In the old days kings would travel in palanquins. One regulative
principle is that one should never enter a temple in a palanquin or a car
or with shoes on. The idea is that one should give up one’s kingly
mentality i. e. the mentality of being the Lord and master, whatever be
one’s qualifications, abilities and social position. Amongst the devotees
particularly in temple, one’s only designation is ‘SERVANT OF THE
SERVANT’.
Upon entering the temple, one should first offer obeisances
(panchanga pranama)to the assembled Vaiṣṇavas and utter the prayer -
vāñchā-kalpatarubhyaś ca kṛpā-sindhubhya eva ca
patitānāṁ pāvanebhyo vaiṣṇavebhyo namo namaḥ
“I offer my respectful obeisances unto all the Vaiṣṇava devotees of the
Lord. They are just
like desire-trees
who can fulfill the
desires of everyone,
and they are full of
compassion for
fallen conditioned
souls.”
Then one should offer obeisances (full dandavats for men) to Śrīla
Prabhupāda, keeping him on our left, and chant his praṇati mantra -
“nama om viṣṇu-pādāya….”
One should then move towards the Deities and
offer full prostrated obeisances, keeping the Deities
on our left side and chant their respective praṇāma
mantras.
It may be noted that one should not offer
obeisances on one hand. Both hands should support
the body while bowing down and both hands should
be outstretched.
- a) After offering obeisances to the Deities one should take ‘darśana’
with great devotion and beg for Their mercy.
- b) One should not, however, immediately look upon the Deities full
in the face. The proper manner in which one should take
‘darśana’ of the Lord is described in Śrīmad Bhāgvatam 2.2.13 -
“The process of meditation should begin from lotus feet of the
Lord and progress to His smiling face. The meditation should be
concentrated upon the lotus feet then the calves, then the thighs
and in this way higher and higher. The more the mind becomes
fixed on different parts of the limbs one after another, the more
the intelligence becomes purified.”
- c) Śrīla Prabhupāda explains in the purport that such meditation
will help us get detached from sense gratification.
The mood of the devotee taking ‘darśana’ is “Sir, I am your
eternal servant. Please let me know how can I serve You?.” The
functions of the big deities in the temple are for giving ‘darśana’
and usually are the istadevas of the sampradaya. So it is quite
natural and respectful to see Them first.
For further details please
referAAppppeennddiixx I at the end of
this section. (Pg No. 31)
For further details please
referAAppppeennddiixx II at the end of
this section. (Pg No. 32)
There are also other considerations as :
If there are three altars Like the Krishna Balaram Mandir in
Vrindavan {or Sri Sri Radha Rasbihari Mandir at Juhu}. Srila
Prabhupada would pay obeisances first at GaurNitai`s Altar then
go to Krishna Balaram’s Altar and then to Sri Sri Radha
Syamsunder .
Also the devotee may like to see his Guru first {but his Guru`s
Picture may not be present} then take ‘darśana’ in the assending
order to Krishna
While taking ‘darśana’ one may stand at the sides so that
‘darśana’ is not obstructed from the devotees who are sitting.
The ‘darśana’ should begin, as we face the Deities, from the
left-hand corner and move progressively, Deity by Deity to the
right-hand corner. In Rādhā-Gopīnātha mandir this would mean
beginning the darśana with Guru Parampara, then Lord
Nityananda and ending with Śrī Gopālji.
There are several regulations regarding one’s sitting posture in
the Temple-
- a) While sitting one should not expose one’s feet to the Deities
or point them at the spiritual
master, Tulasī-devī etc. The feet
should always be covered.
- b) One should as far as possible,
avoid sitting with one’s back to
the Deities or the vyāsāsana.
(However the layout of the
temple may at times restrict us
in following this principle).
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- c) One should not spread one’s legs
before the Deities.
- d) One should not sit before the
Deities holding one’s ankles,
elbows or knees.(Please see the
illustrations).
- e) One should not fall asleep while
sitting before the Deities.
- a) In front of the Deities one should not:
- talk loudly
- quarrel
- chastise anyone
- speak harshly to others or speak angrily
- praise anyone else
- speak ill names
- criticise the demigods
- indulge in ‘prajalpa’ or mundane talk
- speak a lie
- talk nearby devotees who are chanting the Holy Name of the Lord
- b) One may speak in front of the Deities to guests and devotees if it
helps in preaching or enhancing their Kṛṣṇa consciousness, but
all other talks should be conducted outside the temple.
- a) A devotee’s clothing must be
simple
clean and distinctive so as to remind people of KṚṢṆA.
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- b) When coming to the temple (particularly for the morning
programme, festivals & on Sundays) devotees should dress as
follows:
Men :dhotī and kurtā
Women :saree (head covered in the presence of men)
Other clothing must be avoided except in compelling
circumstances or where definitely required for preaching.
- c) For both men and women, clothing should be simple and not
fashionable and opulent. Yet the clothes must be neat and
presentable. Unnecessary items like perfumes and various
forms of cosmetics and make-up should be avoided. Simplicity
in dress is very important for a Vaiṣṇava, whether in the Temple
or outside.
- d) Particularly for morning programmes and for all Temple
programmes in general fresh clothes must be worn. The previous
days’ clothes must not be worn.
- e) Lord Caitanya said that a Vaiṣṇava is one who when seen reminds
one of Kṛṣṇa. Hence, all devotees must be particular in regard to
the following, which mark one out as a Vaiṣṇava:
1. Tilaka :
One should always decorate the body with tilaka
at twelve places after taking a bath. A person who is
not chanting the Holy Name and not following the
regulative principles must not wear tilaka
particularly outside the temple.
2. Hair :
Men:Brahmacāris and sannyāsīs must shave their heads once
a week and keep śikhā. Gṛhastas may do the same. However,
according to their service, they may keep hair short and neat
& if possible, a small śikhā.
For further details please
referAAppppeennddiixx III at the end of
this section. (Pg No. 34)
Although there seems to be no śāstric injunctions
regarding the size of the śikhā, Gauḍiya Vaiṣṇavas
traditionally keep the śikhā about the size of a calf’s
hoof print, approximately 1.5 inches (5-6 cm) in
diameter.
The śikhā may be any length, but it should be kept
tightly knotted and only untied when you are washing,
cleaning or oiling it.
Also, when going to sleep, attending
funeral rites, or observing a period of
mourning, you should keep the śikhā untied.
Since an untied śikhā is a sign of a death in
the family, it is inauspicious to go about one’s
daily duties with an untied śikhā. It is also
said that if one keeps the śikhā untied, the
body may become weak.
While tying your śikhā after bathing,
chant the Hare Kṛṣṇa mantra or if initiated
with Gāyatrī mantras, silently chant the
Brahma-Gāyatrī (first line of Gāyatrī). The
śikhā should not be braided (traditionally only women braid
their hair), nor should it be kept long and dishevelled.
If the śikhā is too short to be tied, it is all right to leave it
open but it should not be dishevelled.
Women:It is preferable for women to keep long hair tied
behind.
3. Kaṅṭhi-Mālā (Tulasī Neck beads) :
All the devotees who are initiated must wear kaṅṭhi-
mālā in at least two (2) or three (3) rounds. The mālā
should be wrapped around the base of the throat and
should be clearly visible.
Śrila Prabhupāda mentioned this
in a conversation with some of his
disciples in Hawaii,
“Gauḍiya Vaiṣṇava śikhā is an inch
and a half across – no bigger. Bigger
śikhā means another Sampradāya.
And they have to be knotted.”
(May 6th1972, Hawaii, SPL V , p-93)
Devotees who are not initiated but have been
following all the regulative principles for some time and
who desire to take dīkṣā may also wear kaṅṭhi-mālā.
Tulasī beads worn around the neck indicate a
devotee’s surrender to the Lord, and therefore a person
wearing Tulasī beads around his neck is dear to the
Lord.
However, a person is an offender if he wears Tulasī
neck-beads simply to imitate a Vaiṣṇava but is not
seriously trying to surrender to the Lord.
It is advisable not to wear beads if one is not following four
regulative principles.
Some devotees also wear other kinds of auspicious mālās –
either made of Tulasī beads, lotus seeds, rope from
Jagannātha’s ratha, or silk pavitras – while performing pūjā,
japa or other sacred functions, these should be removed when
bathing or leaving the temple or house, while going to toilet.
The kaṅṭhi-mālā is worn permanently, for the beads protect
one from bad dreams, accidents, attack by weapons and the
servants of Yamarāja. Upon seeing the Tulasī-mālā, the
Yamadūtas flee like leaves scattered by the wind.
Devotees who are not following the basic principles,
particularly the chanting of the Holy Name and four regulative
principles(viz.no meat eating, no illicit sex, no gambling, no
intoxication) should not wear kaṅṭhi-mālā. Strictly speaking,
once the kaṅṭhi-mālā is worn, even onion and garlic should
not pass down the throat.
One should therefore advise new devotees accordingly.
4. Moustache and beard :
Devotees who are initiated or preparing to be initiated should
not have a moustache or a beard. (It may be noted, however
that in some Vaiṣṇava ‘maṭhas’ men shave their face and head
once a fortnight or on full moon day; and in Caturmasya
period they do not shave at all. But our standard is to shave on
regular basis with the odd exception of yatras or for some other
justifiable reason).
- a) As mentioned earlier, fresh clothes must be worn in the Temple.
- b) After one takes prasādam the area where the plate was kept must
be cleared. One should not step over the area where prasādam
was taken, because it is considered contaminated. The place
where we take prasādam becomes contaminated. And if one steps
on that spot, then feet must be washed. The place where the
prasādam has been taken must be cleaned right after the
prasādam has been taken. Because the temple must be very clean,
we should be careful that we do not unnecessarily contaminate
the temple.
- c) One should not enter the temple hall without having washed
one’s hand and feet after eating.
- d) One should enter the temple with clean hands and feet.
- e) One should take bath after passing stool and only then enter the
temple hall.
- f) One should not enter the Temple after visiting a crematorium or
after touching a dead body. One must first take proper bath and
then enter.
- g) One should not pass air or belch within the Temple.
- h) One should avoid putting one’s fingers in one’s mouth, ears or
nose while in the Temple. When one is compelled to do this (even
outside the Temple), one’s hands must be washed immediately
thereafter.
- i) During their menstrual periods, mātājis may visit the Temple
but they may not perform any item of Deity worship viz. Āratī,
dressing, cooking, garlands or any other work that requires
their presence in the Deity Room or kitchen, or any work that
is directly connected to the Deities (e.g. stitching Their
Clothes etc.)
At this time, such matajis should avoid being in physical
contact with anyone who is or will be involved in the service of
the Deities.
They may attend Tulasī pūjā but may not offer water to Tulasī-devī.
Under all circumstances chanting on one’s japa beads should
continue. There can be no material impediment to the chanting
of the Holy Name.
As far as one’s home is concerned, mātājīs should try to
maintain the above standard where possible. In some cases it may
not be practical and possible to do that, as there may be no one
else available to do the cooking etc. In such cases, mātājīs may do
the needful to fulfil their domestic obligations and at the same
time also see that their household Deities are taken care of.
Other members of the family, as far as possible, should help in
this regard.
- a) One should always remember that one is a devotee and is
representing Guru and Kṛṣṇa. Whether in Temple or at home, at
work in the office or out on the street, one should conduct in a
way that draws appreciation to Guru and Kṛṣṇa and should avoid
all conduct that will bring Guru and Kṛṣṇa disrepute.
- b) Devotees should not wear expensive and flashy looking jewellery,
wristwatches etc. Jewellery for women must be worn with careful
moderation (if at all) and men should preferably avoid all
jewellery like gold chains, bracelets etc.
- c) As far as possible devotees should avoid using any items made of
leather, knowing them to be the result of animal slaughter. Unless
unavoidable in one’s service, one should refrain from wearing
leather shoes (and also items like bags, wallets, watchstraps etc.).
- d) Even (and particularly) when one is criticised or offended, one
should conduct oneself with dignity.
- e) While one may certainly take precautions against being cheated
or take action where necessary, one should be careful to avoid
picking up quarrels, indulging in useless argumentation, and so
on.
- f) A devotee must be particularly careful in dealings with the
opposite sex.
- g) Śrīla Rupa Goswāmī says that a devotee must not be neglectful in
ordinary dealings. In other words, one should not give up basic
courtesies and formalities considering them to be mundane (and
oneself to be transcendental).
- h) To touch someone with one’s foot is offensive. If one has to walk
past seated devotees in Temple, for
example, one should extend one’s
hand to indicate that one wishes
to go by and they will move their
knees to let one pass (to see in
illustration ).
If by accident one touches a
devotee with one’s foot, one
should touch the devotee’s body
gently with one’s right hand and
(then) touch one’s right hand to
one’s head; this nullifies the
offense.
- a) While attending discourses one should be very attentive and
silent. A talkative or sleepy devotee has a discouraging and
distracting influence on the speaker and on the assembled
devotees. It does not also project a good image of our mission.
- b) If one feels excessively sleepy one should move to the side of the
hall and stand up.
- c) Rules regarding sitting in the Temple mentioned earlier should be
followed.
- d) One should avoid moving in and out of the Temple or room
where the discourse is being taking place. This causes great
disturbance.
- e) Parents must control their children. If the children become noisy,
they must be kept outside the Temple.
- f) Relevant and pertinent questions may be asked and in a humble
spirit.
Ārati is also called nīrāñjana or dṛṣṭi,
which means waving auspicious items
before a person in order to dispel
inauspicious influences or elements, as a
means of protection.
The various items offered, all
representative of the material elements in
pure form and the corresponding sense
objects (i.e. sound, form, touch, etc.) are
auspicious and purifying.
Śrila Prabhupāda writes :
There must be regular maṅgala-ārati
in the temple during the early morning,
an hour and a half before the sun rises.
(Cc. Madhya 24.334, purport)
Śrila Prabhupāda further emphasizes in Nectar of Devotion, the benefit
of seeing the ārati performed:
In the Skanda Purāṇa there is the following description of the result of
seeing ārati (worship) of the Deity: ‘If someone sees the face of the Lord
while ārati is going on, he can be relieved of all sinful reactions coming from
many, many thousands and millions of years past. He is even excused from
the killing of a brāhmaṇa or similar prohibited activities.’ (The Nectar of
Devotion, Ch. 9)
Thus all ārati ceremonies offered to the Lord are auspicious
(maṅgala) but the first ārati of the day, in the early morning, is
considered particularly auspicious for all who participate.
Śrīla Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura, who appeared in the
middle of the seventeenth century, is a great spiritual master
in the Kṛṣṇa conscious chain of gurus and disciples. He says,
“One who, with great care and attention, loudly recites this
beautiful prayer to the spiritual master during the brāhma-
muhūrta obtains direct service to Kṛṣṇa, the Lord of
Vṛndāvana, at the time of his death.”
Nirmālya refers to the garlands, flowers, candana, bath water
(Caraṇāmṛta), ghee lamp and Tulasī leaves that the pūjāri has
offered to the Lord during the pūjā. After the pūjā is completed,
the devotees should accept these items on the heads, saying, “jaya
mahā-prasādam”.
(i) Flowers, garlands :
One should not disrespect the nirmālya by stepping on it or
leaving it in an unclean place.
After being properly respected, nirmālya such as garlands and
flowers can be collected and disposed in a river, a lake or the
ocean.
Devotees accept prasāda flower garlands by touching them to
the head, wearing them and smelling them.
They accept prasāda Tulasī garlands simply by
touching them to the head and smelling them, but not
wearing them.
(i) Caraṇāmṛta :
Drinking the bath water of Viṣṇu is powerful enough
to destroy the effects of one million sins such as the
killing of other living entities. However, the person who
lets even one drop of the sacred bath water fall on the ground
must suffer eight million such sinful effects. (Hari-bhakti-vilāsa)
The pūjāri(or an assistant) should distribute Caraṇāmṛta to
the devotees, who may chant the following verse while drinking
and placing it on their heads:
To avoid spillage, hold your left hand under your right hand
when receiving mahā-prasāda, nirmālya flowers, Tulasī leaves and
mañjarīs or Caraṇāmṛta.
(ii) Ghee Lamp :
In traditional temples the lamp is brought first to Garuḍa, who
stands at the back of the temple.
In ISKCON temples the lamp is brought first to Śrila
Prabhupāda, the Founder-Ācārya of ISKCON, as he is the
Vaiṣṇava-śreṣṭha, the leader of the assembled Vaiṣṇavas, in order
of seniority. (Women who are having their monthly cycle should
not touch the lamp.)
The person offering the prasāda lamp should be sensitive to
the seniority of the assembled devotees; the assembled devotees,
however, should not be overly sensitive if missed when the lamp
is offered.
The lamp is not meant to show respect or honour to us, but
rather we are meant to offer respect to the lamp as the Lord’s
prasāda by touching the fire to our foreheads briefly with both
hands and saying ‘jaya mahā-prasadam’.
ṣrī-rādhā-kṛṣṇa-pādodakaṁ prema-bhakti-daṁ mudā
bhakti-bhāveṇa vai pītvā śirasā dhārayamy aham
“The water from the lotus feet of Śrī Śrī Rādhā and Kṛṣṇa bestows pure
loving devotion to Them. Having drunk that water with great joy and
devotion, I hold that water upon my head.”
(iv) Deity’s Clothing :
Another type of nirmālya used is clothing from the Deity. Deity
clothing which is distributed as prasāda of the Lord should be
respected.
We may respect prasāda cloth by keeping it with other
worshippable paraphernalia, or even by keeping it in a glass
frame and hanging it on a wall like a painting or a photograph.
One may also wear it, but strictly speaking it is best not to cut
and re-sew the cloth, as is a widespread custom. If cutting and re-
sewing is to be done, it should be only for devotional clothing.
Bead bags and costumes for children’s drama is acceptable (if the
drama is for glorification of the Lord).
Avoid wearing any prasāda cloth below your waist.
(v) Mahā-prasādam :
As is commonly practised in many temples in India, after the
darśana-ārati, the pūjāri may distribute small morsels of
prasādam to devotees directly from the altar room or from
outside. Sometimes for preaching purposes small quantity of
prasādam is distributed to guests. Devotees respect these
remnants immediately, moving somewhat to the side of the
temple room so as not to be directly in front of the Deities while
eating.
Try to distribute dry sweet prasādam, as wet prasādam may
spill on the ground.
Part II: Other Etiquette & General Conduct
Handling sacred items, maintaining personal hygiene, and performing congregational kīrtana.
- i) Books, beads, kartals etc. should not be kept on the floor or in
unclean places and should be respected as worshipable
paraphernalia.
- i) One should not touch one’s feet to anything sacred or use one’s
feet to do what could be done with one’s hands.
- ii) If a sacred object falls to the ground or one’s foot touches one
should quickly pick it up and touch it to one’s head.
- iv) One should not step over books, devotees, Prasādam, flowers that
have been offered to the Lord or over any sacred articles.
- v) All sacred articles should be kept in a neat, clean place and
handled with care. They should not be tossed about but carefully
handed over from person to person.
- vi) Sacred items like beads, books, tilak, etc. should not be taken into
the bathroom.
- vii) One should be very careful in handling pictures of Guru and
Kṛṣṇa. They should be handled with great care and respect.
viii)Special mention may be made of Hari-Naam chaddars. Since the
Holy Name is printed on cloth, it is a sacred object and should
not be touched to the floor.
- ix) One should be careful while offering obeisances that the bead bag
in one’s hand does not touch the floor. It may be kept aside before
offering obeisances.
- x) One should be very careful in handling Deities’ paraphernalia like
Their clothes, jewellery, vessels etc. For instance clothes and
towels should be nicely folded and kept, the vessels should be
placed in a proper place and so on.
If one touches one’s hand to the floor or anything unclean, one
should wash hands before touching Deity paraphernalia again.
Kṛṣṇa is non-different than His paraphernalia and treating
Kṛṣṇa’s paraphernalia badly means to treat Kṛṣṇa badly. True
bhakti will then not appear in our hearts. We have to be
conscious at all times that all these different items are not
ordinary items, but they are to be used in Kṛṣṇa’s service and
therefore worshipable.
- i) One who is serious about spiritual life should rise early in the
morning, preferably before the ‘brāhma-muhurta’ hour i.e. one
and a half (1½) hours before sunrise.
- i) After waking up, first brush your teeth.
- ii) One should then bathe in cold water and after wearing fresh
clothes, begin the day’s sādhana.
- iv) Bath should be taken after:
- rising early in the morning
- long naps of more than an hour.
- passing stool.
- excessively perspiring, or
- being contaminated in any way (after visiting crematorium).
- v) Personal hygiene and cleanliness should be maintained. Nails
should be kept clean and clipped short. Nail clippings should be
thrown in the dustbin. Śrīla Rupa Goswāmi even mentions that
one should carefully clean one’s teeth properly and regularly.
- vi) Hands and legs should be washed after passing water and hands
It is said in Śrīmad Bhāgavatam 3.20.46 (Purport):
“The time early in the morning, one and a half hours before sunrise,
is called brāhma-muhurta. During this brāhma-muhurta, spiritual
activities are recommended. Spiritual activities performed early in the
morning have a greater effect than in any other part of the day.”
should be washed properly with soap after passing stool.
Brāhmaṇa initiates should wrap their sacred threads around their
right ear while using the toilet.
- vii) Only the right hand should be used for eating, chanting on the
beads, offering something, accepting something, etc.
viii)Wash hands, feet and mouth before and after honouring
prasādam.
- ix) Wash hands after drinking water.
- x) Do not spit while eating.
- xi) Do not spit on water.
- xii) Sannyāsīs should bathe three times a day, gṛhasthas and
brahmacārīs at least twice a day.
- xiii) Bathe after shaving, copulating or going to a crematorium.
- xiv) One should take rest for about six (6) to six and a half (6½) hours
every night. Too much sleep or too little sleep is not good for our
Kṛṣṇa Consciousness.
viii)One should try to sleep on the floor or on a hard surface.
Luxurious soft beds should be avoided.
- ix) It is best to sleep on one’s left side, if not, then on back, but never
on one’s stomach.
- x) One should not waste Kṛṣṇa’s energy like soap, toothpaste,
electricity, water etc. One should turn off the lights and fans,
whenever and wherever they are not required.
- xi) One should spend Kṛṣṇa’s money discreetly and with
responsibility, asking oneself if this expenditure is really
necessary for enhancing Kṛṣṇa’s service.
- i) Leading Kīrtana at a satsanga is an honour as one is representing
the whole congregation before the Deities. Therefore one should
be conscious of this and lead only when one is asked to.
- i) We should sing only those kīrtanas, which are authorised.
- ii) The prema dhvani prayers (i.e. jaya oṁ viṣṇu-pāda…) at the end
of the kīrtana should be recited by the senior most devotee
present e.g. sannyāsīs or Śrīla Prabhupāda’s disciples.
- iv) Only the standard prema-dhvaniprayers should be
recited except on special occasions like appearance
days when the appropriate glorification may be made
additionally.
- v) There are standard melodies to be sung at specific times of the
day. In particular in the morning programme the saṁsāra-dāvā
prayers and Hare Kṛṣṇa mahāmantra should be sung in the
morning melody.
- vi) Kīrtana should be simple and led in a way that can be followed
and repeated easily by the congregation.
- vii) All devotees should enthusiastically sing in chorus.
viii)All devotees should follow the same melody that the lead singer
is singing. Therefore devotees should pay careful attention at all
times.
- ix) Mṛdañga and kartāla players should be close to lead singer and
should watch him carefully, and ADJUST THEIR SPEED
ACCORDING TO HIS. Therefore the kartāla and mṛdañga
players should be extra attentive.
- x) The general pattern of the morning kīrtana should be saṁsāra-
dāvā prayers, pañca-tattva mantra, Hare Kṛṣṇa mahā-mantra and
hari harāye namaḥ kṛṣṇa yādavāya namaḥ, (Gopal govinda ram
sri madhusudhana)
- xi) Where there are two or more kartāla players, they must play in
harmony. Similarly, for mṛdañga players.
- xii) Kīrtanas should be sweet and melodious and not simply loud.
For further details please
referAAppppeennddiixx IV at the end of
this section. (Pg No. 37)
- i) Śrīla Rūpa Goswāmi states that one should learn to
dance in front of the Deities.
- i) Dancing should be graceful and enthusiastic but not
violent and wild.
ii)Dancing in the traditional Gaudiya way as
demonstrated by Śrīla Prabhupāda should be the
standard.
- iv) In addition dancing can take place in various
formations. For example:
- rows of devotees rhythmically approaching each
other and then receding.
- devotees forming rows one behind the other and while
continuing to face the Deities, moving towards and then away
from Them rhythmically.
- devotees moving in a circle (Please see the illustration).
- v) Devotees should take care to see that the formations are
maintained and that they are in line.
- vi) While dancing in formation devotees should raise hands, hold
hands etc. as may be required for that particular formation.
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- vii) This dancing is not a “spectator sport” and devotees should not
simply stand and watch. All should participate. However, those
who are unwilling (particularly guests and newcomers or those
who are sick) should not be forced.
- viii) Dancing in ways that can cause injury to devotees should be
avoided e.g.
- Two devotees clasping hands and spinning, because it may
be harmful to other devotees.
- Spinning alone with arms outstretched.
- Tossing children (and even grown-ups) in the air or lifting
them.
- Pushing excessively while moving in the circle.
- ix) Men and women should dance in separate portions of the
Temple.
- x) One should watch the lead dancer always and synchronise.
The perfect dancing is in Lord Caitanya’s style with arms raised or
folded hands with enthusiasm and devotion.
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- i) The urge to speak is very strong and as soon as we get an
opportunity we begin speaking. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that if
we do not speak Kṛṣṇa kathā then we speak all sorts of nonsense.
- i) Such talk is called ‘prajalpa’ and is born of our material
identification. Thus devotees must refrain from it.
- ii) All mundane literatures are also practical exhibitions of the urge
to speak. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains in the “Nectar of Instruction”
that materialistic people read heaps of newspapers, magazines
and novels, solve crosswords and do many nonsensical things. In
this fashion, people simply waste their valuable time and energy.
In the Western countries old men retired from active life play
cards, fish, watch television & debate about useless socio-
political schemes. All these and other frivolous activities are
included in the prajalpa category. Intelligent people interested in
Kṛṣṇa Consciousness should never take part in these activities.
- iv) Śrī Rupa Goswāmi advocates the process of Kṛṣṇa kathā – talk
of all subjects connected to Lord Kṛṣṇa as a means to
counteract the urge to speak. Therefore, if we must talk, we
should talk Kṛṣṇa kathā.
- v) Before we speak we should ponder whether
- Is it necessary?
- Is it kind?
- Is it right?
- vi) Devotees should avoid speech that offends, particularly
blasphemy of devotees, which is the first offence against the Holy
Name. ‘Vaiṣṇava aparādha’ will surely choke our tender
devotional creeper very quickly.
- i) Our actions and behaviour are our best preaching because actions
speak louder than words. As the saying goes “Your actions speak
so loud that I cannot hear what you are saying.”
- i) Preaching means to change the heart, not simply to defeat
someone intellectually.
- ii) This does not mean, of course, that we should not present our
philosophy properly. All devotees must endeavour to study Śrīla
Prabhupāda’s books and understand them thoroughly and try to
present faithfully what one has submissively read and heard.
- iv) There is no need to read other books or go to other philosophers
to learn how to preach. The humble servant of the spiritual
master is the best preacher.
- v) The principle of preaching is nicely described by Śrīla Rupa
Goswāmi in the Bhakti Rasamrita Sindhu :
- vi) Ultimately what will change people’s heart is not simply the
philosophy that we are speaking but mainly to what extent we
have imbibed the philosophy in our lives and realised that
knowledge practically.
- vii) Our preaching should generally be done in a humble attitude and
not in the attitude of superiority.
viii)When preaching we should simply repeat the words of the
spiritual master and deliver his message like a postman and we
should never think that we know more than the previous ācāryas,
how to preach. We are empowered to the degree we are
submissively preaching their words.
- ix) One must show compassion and concern for the person one is
preaching to. One may need to even pay attention to his petty
material problems if necessary.
yena kena prakāreṇa manaḥ kṛṣṇa niveśayet
“Somehow or other, one must think of Kṛṣṇa.”
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- x) One must speak the truth, but according to deśa, kāla and pātra
i.e place, time and people. Our goal is to make people Kṛṣṇa
Conscious and we should preach keeping this in mind and do
what is needful.
- xi) One should have a balanced approach while preaching. A good
preacher will always understand the need for the devotees in
different categories. Just as in material life there are bankers,
lawyers, doctors and so on, in spiritual life too there is a need for
(& there will always be willing candidates for) the renounced
order and also for those in the householder or professional
category. Both varieties of devotees are necessary and valuable.
- xii) While preaching to a particular person, our approach should be
to advise what is best for his Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
xiii)There is a need for qualified brahmacāris, qualified gṛhastas,
qualified vānaprasthas and qualified sannyāsīs and we should
encourage a person according to where he can make best spiritual
advancement and serve Śrila Prabhupāda’s mission.
- xiv) Basic etiquette must be followed when another devotee is
preaching. He should not be suddenly interrupted unless there is
something urgent.
- xv) Basic courtesies must be followed e.g. wishing with a smile, being
helpful if someone needs help or guidance.
- xvi) New people should be made to feel at home and should be given
great abundance of love and hospitality.
- xvii) Particularly on Sundays at the Temple, devotees should first
associate with the guests and newcomers and then with the
regular devotees.
xviii)While we preach to new people, we must always remember that
preaching to devotees is equally, if not more, important.
So while we make newcomers feel at home, regular devotees
should not be neglected either.
xix)At outside programs, newcomers and guests may be given
preference for asking questions after the lecture, particularly
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- x) We should not advocate/preach breaking of the laws of the land
in the name of doing something for Kṛṣṇa. Devotees should
adhere to these laws too.
xi)We should not be sectarian. We should respect all bonafide
religious and spiritual paths. In particular we may show special
respect for other Vaiṣṇava Sampradāyas.
Part III: Prasādam & Kitchen Rules
Guidelines for cleanliness in cooking, serving protocols, and honoring the Lord's mercy.
- i) First and foremost, one should eat only prasādam i.e. food that
has been offered to Lord Kṛṣṇa with devotion.
- i) Ideally one should eat food that is
- cooked by devotees
- offered to the Lord by devotees
- Served by the devotees.
One should try to come as close to this ideal standard as is
practically possible given the limitations of city life and needs of
preaching.
- ii) Unless absolutely necessary for preaching or service, food cooked
by non-devotees should be avoided.
- iv) In the same spirit all commercial food items like chocolates, ice
creams, chips, biscuits, cold drinks, bread etc. should be avoided
at home. To guests one may offer home-made foods and natural
drinks like lemon water, fruit juice etc.
- v) Commercial items may be selectively had while travelling or in
otherwise compelling circumstances. Where the Prasādam one is
carrying with oneself is not sufficient or as an addition, uncooked
and raw foods like fruits, nuts, milk etc. are preferable to
commercially cooked items.
- vi) Sometimes while travelling or in the course of some preaching or
service or professional work one may be compelled to eat in a
restaurant. One should select if possible a restaurant which is
purely vegetarian and even then be careful to order items which
are without onion and/or garlic.
- vii) One should eat prasādam which is sattvik in nature and avoid
foods that are rājasik i.e. foods which are very spicy, oily and rich.
- viii) The bhoga must be offered in the proper way at
home
- ix) Prasādam should not be wasted. Excess prasādam
should be put on another plate before eating.
- x) After everyone in the family has eaten, if prasādam is still
left, it may be retained for some time for the next meal if
possible or distributed outside somewhere.
- xi) Prasādam should be eaten only with the right hand; the left hand
is for touching other parts of the body.
- xii) While serving prasādam, the serving spoon should not touch the
plate or the half-eaten prasādam.
xiii)One should eat prasādam in moderation and preferably at fixed
times of the day. Overeating and eating wrong kinds of foods are
not good for spiritual life and also for health. Controlling our diet
will help us control our tongue and this will help us in turn to
control our senses.
- xiv) Before honouring prasādam appropriate prayer
should be chanted.
- xv) Prasādam must be honoured with a consciousness
that it is Kṛṣṇa’s mercy and is non-different from
Him. Therefore, except where necessary for
preaching one should maintain silence. Hearing a
lecture or a cassette at this time is also beneficial.
For further details please
referAAppppeennddiixx VI at the end of
this section. (Pg No. 40)
For further details please
referAAppppeennddiixx V at the end of
this section. (Pg No. 39)
- xvi) When guests visit the house, the bhoga that has been offered to
the home Deities becomes mahā-prasādam which should be
distributed to all present in small quantities. Fresh, hot prasādam
should be served out as per requirements to all the guests,
including Guru and sannyāsīs.
- xvii) When senior Vaiṣṇavas are present we should patiently wait till
they have begun eating and only then we should begin eating
(unless we are told otherwise).
- xviii) One should get up after finishing prasādam only when all have
finished eating (except with the permission of senior Vaiṣṇavas
present).
xix)Guru’s mahā-prasādam should not be distributed in presence of
newcomers.
- x) After one has begun eating prasādam, one should not touch
anything else with the right hand.
xi)We should not distribute prasādam, unless we have washed both
hands.
- xi) One should not take prasādam in view of karmī
public, e.g. while walking down the streets, or
while in procession. As far as possible, prasādam
should be honoured either in a private place or
where everyone else is taking prasādam.
- i) The kitchen is an extension of the altar because whatever is
cooked there will be offered to the Deities. So whatever one is
doing in the kitchen should be done with care and attention for
the Deities.
- i) Where the Deities are formally installed as in the Temple,
standards expected are quite high and strict. In comparison,
some degree of concession may be offered in respect of
household Deities where it is not possible to maintain the same
[[ Also refer:
PARTII-- 11.. G) CLEANLINESS
& HYGIENE point (b)
standard. For example, it is a rule that one should not eat in the
kitchen or in front of the Deities. However, in many homes the
altar, kitchen and dining table are all in one room so it may not
be possible to follow the above rules.
- ii) Householders, however, should keep the ideal standard in mind
and try to come as close to it as possible in their particular
situation. One should always remember that one is cooking for
Kṛṣṇa. The more careful one is in regard to these small rules, the
more one can become conscious that one is not cooking for
oneself, but for Lord Kṛṣṇa Himself.
- iv) Only clean, uncontaminated clothes must be worn in the
kitchen. Clothes that have been used outside or in the bathroom
cannot be used.
- v) Fingernails should be clean and clipped. Hands must be washed
upon entering the kitchen before beginning cooking. In the
Temple, bath must be taken before cooking. At home it is
preferable to do so.
- vi) One should not put anything in one’s mouth in the kitchen. One
should not rinse one’s mouth in the kitchen sink. In particular,
one should not ‘taste’ or ‘smell’ a preparation to ‘test’ it.
- vii) Where possible, there should be no eating or drinking in the
kitchen area. If this is unavoidable, the curtain in front of the
Deities must be drawn.
viii)The vessels in which bhoga is cooked for the Deities in
particular, and the plates and the cups in which bhoga is offered,
should be kept and washed separately from the plates, cups and
glasses in which the family devotees eat or drink.
- ix) If one has an infectious disease one should not work in the
kitchen area as one may contaminate the bhoga and the vessels.
- x) If one touches the floor or the dustbin, or the lower part of one’s
body one should wash one’s hands.
- xi) There should be no unnecessary talking in the kitchen.
- xii) The cooking platform stove, sink etc. should be cleaned up
before and after cooking.
xiii)One should work carefully but efficiently and avoid cluttering.
- xiv) Anything that has fallen to the floor cannot be put on the tables.
If a vegetable falls on the floor it may be washed and then used.
- xv) One must not enter the kitchen straight after using the toilet
unless one has taken a bath.
xvii)Mahā-prasādam should not be eaten directly from the Deities’
plate but it should be transferred to another vessel or plate before
being eaten. The temple standard is that one should not begin
eating until the Deities’ plates have been washed.
xvi)VERY IMPORTANT:Devotees must be absolutely careful that
no hair falls in and contaminates the offerings. Absolute caution
must be exercised in this regard. Devotees must keep their hair
well covered while cooking.
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Ideally, prasādam should be served by initiated Vaiṣṇavas. One
should be pure in mind, body, habits and dress and perform your
duties quickly, quietly and efficiently. As much as possible, loud
talking and disruptive noises should be avoided.
One must ensure that preparations meant to be served hot are
actually hot (but not reheated after having become cold) and that
all preparations to be served are either present or will arrive for
serving at the proper time.
Neither the server nor the serving utensils should ever touch
the plates or hands of those who are eating, for this will
contaminate the server and serving utensil. If this happens, one
should wash one’s hands and the contaminated utensil before
continuing to serve the prasāda.
The prasādam may be gently dropped on a free area of the
plate (not on the salt, for example), taking care to not mix salty
preparations with sweet preparations.
Prasādam should not be served directly into the hand of
the person eating, unless one is serving not a meal but
only morsels of mahā-prasādam.
Except when serving dry sweets or dry items, one should serve
prasādam with a spoon, even for salt.
Only one’s right hand must be used to serve prasādam and one
should not touch anything impure (one’s mouth, feet, hair or
lower body) nor should one yawn, sneeze or spit. The serving
vessels should not touch anyone’s feet.
Servings may be small, but when the devotees finish an item
one should be alert to replenish the preparation. One should be
generous in giving the devotees as much of an item as they
desire. One should not be miserly and hold anything back
because one wants to take it later. Prasādam is meant for
The proper order of serving the various preparations is:
- Water should be served first.
- When Gauḍiya Vaiṣṇavas serve prasādam, they begin
the main meal with bitter foods, such as śukta and
spinach.
- This is followed by dāl and savouries (such as pakaurās
and fried potatoes).
- Then come other vegetable preparations (sabjīs),
progressing from lighter sabjīs to richer sabjīs and
from wet to dry.
- Then richer wet sabjīs are served again,
- Followed by rāitās and chutneys.
- Finally sweets progressing from less to more sweet.
- Rice and capātis should be offered from the very
beginning and replenished as required, until those
honouring the prasādam have finished all sabjīs. (If
possible, capātis should be served hot.)
distribution. The devotees should never be left with an empty
plate except at the end of the meal.
The server or the host may describe the wonderful qualities of
an item as it is offered. Except where necessary for preaching one
should maintain silence. Hearing a lecture or a cassette at this
time is also beneficial. Some devotees can read Kṛṣṇa book or
Śrila Prabhupāda Lilāmṛta.
Everyone in a group should be offered the same items. When
a group of persons take prasādam together, no one should be
offered anything that is not offered to everyone else. The devotee
who is serving prasādam should not make any distinction while
serving. If possible those with special diets should eat separately.
The prasādam may be served from serving buckets.
The buckets should not be dragged along the floor nor should
clanging noises be made with pot handles or utensils.
After everyone has finished honouring prasādam, the place
must be cleaned immediately. Also devotees can collect the
remnants fallen around the plate and put in the dustbin.
One should be clean during meals, having washed one’s
hands, feet and mouth. Also, one’s śikhā should be bound, the
head uncovered (for men) and feet bare.
One should eat in a clean, spacious, peaceful place. If possible
one may avoid eating in a vehicle. (During yātrās this is
unavoidable)
One should not eat at the sandhyās (sunrise, noon or sunset),
before bathing, or before performing Gāyatrī japa or your
morning Deity worship.
Also, it is not proper to eat until the food from the previous
meal has been digested.
One may eat with legs crossed, but not spread. Keeping the
plate in one’s lap is not proper. Āyurveda recommends sitting on
the floor (with an āsana) to take prasādam, with the legs crossed
to ease digestion. Anyone over fifty, (when body does not
support) however, may eat while seated at a table.
Before beginning a meal, one should glance over the prasādam
and pay one’s respects to it, remembering that it is the
mercy of the Lord.
One should glorify the Lord’s prasādam by chanting
the prayers.
AND FOR DRINKING WATER
While eating or drinking, do not make disturbing noises or
find fault with the taste of the prasādam.
Use only the five fingers of the right hand to touch and place
food in the mouth. Eating with the fingers is recommended
because the digestive process begins with the sensation of food
touching the fingers.
The left hand should be used only for lifting a water cup, and
then only if one can pour the water into the mouth without
touching the cup to the lips.
Tear large items such as capātis and purīs with the fingers of
the right hand and then place the small pieces in the mouth. Do
not use your left hand to tear capātis and purīs. One should not
consume a large item by taking it in one’s mouth and tearing it
with one’s teeth.
When the right hand is clean (before a meal), one may use it
to hold the cup and pour the water into the mouth so that the cup
does not touch the lips. During a meal one’s right hand touches
one’s mouth, so one should take the cup in one’s left hand and
pour the water into one’s mouth without touching one’s lips. If
the cup cannot pour properly, one may hold it in one’s right hand
and drink using one’s lips.
For further details please
referAAppppeennddiixx VI . (Pg No. 40)
Overeating causes disease and decreases one’s life span. It also
stops one’s spiritual advancement, generates sin and makes one
an object of criticism.
Ideally one should eat so that half one’s stomach is filled with
food, one quarter with water and the remainder with air.
It is appropriate to chant the prema-dhvani at the end of a
meal, before rising to leave.
After finishing a meal and while waiting for others to finish,
one may chant aloud various ślokas and prayers glorifying the
Lord.
Out of respect for others who are still eating, all persons in a
row should wait for others in the same row to finish before rising.
After rising from the meal, one should wash one’s hands,
without delay and then rinse one’s mouth at least three times and
finally one may wash one’s feet.
Do not take rest or perform any strenuous labour directly after
a meal.
One should maintain a tranquil frame of mind, as one did
during the meal, by remembering the Lord, chanting His Name
and discussing His pastimes.
After the meal, the eating area should be thoroughly cleaned
with water.
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Part IV: Dealings and Vaiṣṇava Relationships
Cultivating loving exchanges, respecting seniority, and avoiding offenses (*vaiṣṇava-aparādha*).
Śrīla Rupa Goswāmi says in the Nectar of Instruction that one
should mentally honour the devotee who chants the Holy Name
of Lord Kṛṣṇa, one should offer humble obeisances to the devotee
who has undergone spiritual initiation, and associate and
faithfully serve a pure devotee who is advanced in undeviated
devotional service and whose heart is completely devoid of
propensity to criticise others.
- a) One should humble oneself submissively and render service to
the spiritual master.
- b) One should take the orders of the Guru as one’s life and soul.
- c) In the presence of Guru, one should not instruct others without
receiving his permission.
- d) In the presence of the Guru, one should not take one’s own
disciples.
- e) One should simply obey the instructions of the Guru and should
not question. We should not disobey the instruction thinking
that we know his “real inner” feelings.
- f) One should never instruct one’s own Guru. Even if one wants to
present something to one’s Guru thinking that this
information may be helpful, one should always present it in a
very humble spirit.
- g) One should never argue with one’s spiritual master.
- h) One should never present one’s qualification to the Guru and
should always remain in a very humble position.
- i) One should never sit on the same level as the spiritual master
unless one receives his permission.
Just like Lord Kṛṣṇa is non-different than His Name or picture,
similarly there is no difference between the spiritual master and
his name and picture hence one should keep pictures of Guru
and Kṛṣṇa at proper place.
One should not read books apart from those written by the
Guru and the paramparā unless one has permission and
blessings.
- a) Within a Vaiṣṇava tradition, it is an important expression of our
humility to respect those who are in the senior position than
ourselves.
- b) In the chain of seniority the seniormost Vaiṣṇava is the Guru who
is to be respected as a representative of God so he must be given
the same respect as Kṛṣṇa Himself.
- c) Next are the sannyāsīs. Among the sannyāsīs themselves,
seniority is considered on the basis of who had taken sannyāsa
initiation earlier.
All sannyāsīs should be offered respectful obeisances,
particularly when one first sees them in the day.
Even Māyāvādi sannyāsīs should be given proper respect,
although one should not associate with them.
- d) Next are the Guru’s Godbrothers. They should be respected as
one respects the spiritual master.
- e) Devotees who have undergone Brāhmaṇa dīkṣā should be
respected. Again seniority is determined on the basis of who has
been initiated earlier.
- f) Devotees who have accepted dīkṣā before us should be given due respect.
- g) Special respect must be offered to the devotees who are senior
in age.
- h) One should not instruct another person in the presence of a
senior Vaiṣṇava without first receiving his permission.
- i) When ghee lamp is being offered to devotees after āratī, seniority
must be taken into account.
- a) Godbrothers should call one another “Prabhu”. One should,
however, not try to become Prabhu because we are being so
addressed. One should simply remain a servant and accept others
as Prabhu.
- b) We are the servants of our Godbrothers and according to a
particular level of Godbrother we must serve him accordingly.
From our senior Godbrothers, we should inquire
submissively, carry out their instructions and aspire to be their
obedient servant.
To those who are equal, we should serve them by befriending
them, assisting them and encouraging them.
To those who are junior to us, we should serve them by
guiding them, directing them, encouraging them and
enlightening them.
- c) When we meet another Godbrother we should bow down and
offer the prayer
vāñchā-kalpatarubhyaś ca kṛpā-sindhubhya eva ca
patitānāṁ pāvanebhyo vaiṣṇavebhyo namo namaḥ
- d) We should never accept a Godbrother as servant unless we have
the permission or order of the spiritual master.
- e) We must never allow the saying “Familiarity breeds contempt” to
enter into the relations between the devotees. Dealings between
devotees should be respectful and without offence and
duplicitousness.
- f) Devotees must not address one another by their karmī names.
- g) One should not praise oneself or boast one’s achievements or
qualifications to the other devotees. One should know that
actually one has no qualifications. Whatever we are able to do is
simply due to the mercy of Guru and the Vaiṣṇavas
- h) If a Godbrother or a Godsister is undergoing some difficulties on
account of sickness or bereavement in the family and/or is in
emotional turmoil due to some reason, one must help in word
and deed. As the saying goes, “A friend in need is a friend
indeed.” The bonds between devotees will be tested at the time of
difficulty. We cannot ignore such developments as being
‘material’.
- i) If a devotee has strayed away from the devotional service and has
not been in the association of devotees for a considerable period,
he or she must not be chastised for being in ‘māyā’ or
reprimanded in a way that will push him or her further away from
the lotus feet of spiritual master. One must offer love,
encouragement and friendship and make him or her feel once
again at home in the company of devotees.
- a) A woman should be given all respect, particularly if she is a
Vaiṣṇavi, and addressed as such.
- b) A Brahmacāri should see every woman as his mother and a
gṛhastha should see every woman except his wife as his mother.
- c) Brahmacāris should associate with Mātājis only so far as required
to execute devotional service and no more.
When guests come to our Temple and homes, it is the
Vaiṣṇava etiquette to treat them with great respect and
love. They should be welcomed with sweet words, a seat,
water and prasādam according to our means.
- a) Śrīla Prabhupāda has to be addressed as “His Divine Grace”, the
Guru and a sannyāsī as “His Holiness” and a God Brother as “His
Grace”.
- b) A Godbrother’s name may be prefixed as “Śrīmān”.
- c) A Brahmacārī’s name is suffixed by the term “Brahmacārī” e.g.
Kṛṣṇa dāsa Brahmacārī; a gṛhastha by the term “Adhikārī” and a
Sannyāsī by the term “Mahārājā”, “Swāmi” or “Goswāmi”.
We may offer respect to, but one should not associate with the
following categories:
- Vaiṣṇavas of bad or doubtful character
- Sahajiyas
- Vaiṣṇavas of Sampradāyas of doubtful bona fides.
- Māyāvādi sannyāsīs.
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- a) Śrīla Rupa Goswāmi says in the ‘Nectar of Instruction’ in regard
to the Vaiṣṇava:
“….Such a devotee should not be seen from materialistic
point of view. Indeed, one should overlook a devotee’s having a
body born in a low family, a body with a bad complexion, a
deformed body, or a diseased or infirm body.”
For further details
please referAAppppeennddiixx VII at
the end of this section.
(Pg No. 56)
- b) In other words one should overlook all bodily defects of bad
appearance, low birth, low education etc. Any Vaiṣṇava serving
the Lord should be considered Holy.
- c) It is stated in the sāstras that it is a hellish mentality to consider
a Vaiṣṇava to be born of a certain caste or creed or to consider the
same to be an ordinary person.
- a) The body of a Vaiṣṇava is to be seen as a Temple of Vishnu.
Therefore while offering obeisances to a Vaiṣṇava we should
remember that we are also offering obeisances to Lord Vishnu
within the heart.
- b) Therefore we should never walk over the body of a Vaiṣṇava.
- a) One should not begin any significant venture in one’s life without
first receiving the blessings of Vaiṣṇavas.
- b) One must always feel oneself dependent on the mercy of the
Vaiṣṇavas.
- a) Śrīla Rupa Goswāmī explains in the Nectar of Instruction that
there are six loving exchanges between Vaiṣṇavas :
Doffering gifts in charity,
Dreceiving gifts in charity,
Drevealing one’s mind in confidence,
Dinquiring confidentially,
Daccepting prasādam,
Doffering prasādam.
- b) When one comes to the Temple one should accept prasādam from
Vaiṣṇavas
- c) For gṛhasthas, it is their duty to invite the Vaiṣṇavas to their
homes to offer prasādam.
- d) The most precious gift we can give or receive is the gift of Kṛṣṇa-
kathā, the transcendental knowledge of Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
- e) Gṛhasthas staying outside the Temple should try to call devotees
of renounced order for preaching at their homes.
- i) One should not allow non-devotees to touch our feet. But if they
insist on doing it and there is no other way to avoid it, one can
simply remember the predecessor ācāryas and spiritual master,
and accept them and return the namaskāra with folded hands.
i)Two categories of non-devotees
To the innocent we should be the well-wisher. With respect we
should try to enlighten them and give them the association of our
spiritual master. But we should not take their association by
engaging in activities that give them pleasure in life i.e. in
materialistic activities.
As regards the atheist, we should avoid them. It is an offense
against the Holy Name to preach to such people. We may
however preach if they are willing to submissively hear from us.
ii)Greeting non-devotees
- a) If the non-devotee is a friend, we can say Hare Kṛṣṇa and
with folded hands touch our forehead.
- b) If the non-devotee is a superior relative then we should
chant Hare Kṛṣṇa and bow down to him or her.
- iv) If one encounters a person who is criticising Guru, Vaiṣṇavas or
śāstra, then one must either soundly defeat him in argument or
leave the place immediately. Hearing such offenses is one of the
greatest obstacles to one’s spiritual development.
Part V: Sādhanā & Daily Practice
Guiding daily spiritual practices, attentive chanting, Deity worship, and Ekādaśī fasting.
a)Chanting the Holy Name of the Lord is the single most important
activity in the life of a devotee. Chanting Japa is an essential
process given by all the great ācaryas for the purification of the
heart. It is the first vow the devotee takes before the spiritual
master at the time of dikṣā. Therefore chanting at least prescribed
sixteen (16) rounds of Hare Kṛṣṇa Mahā- Mantra daily, without
fail, is an absolute must for every serious devotee.
b)Śrīla Prabhupāda says that 99% of our spiritual advancement
comes from chanting the Holy Name. Thus a devotee who
sincerely and regularly chants at least sixteen rounds everyday,
avoiding offences, will make quick progress in Kṛṣṇa
Consciousness.
- c) Japa - An exclusive activity
When we attach importance to some activity, we keep aside
some time exclusively for that activity. Similarly, every devotee
must spend the time required for chanting his or her prescribed
rounds exclusively for japa and for no other activity, even if it is
some form of devotional service.
For e.g., while chanting one’s sixteen rounds one should not
be reading newspapers or talking to others or while even hearing
to kīrtans for that matter. Japa is an activity that demands our
complete, undivided attention.
During japa, telephone calls should not be entertained. The
caller may be politely asked to leave a message or call up later.
Even visitors who come in person should be requested to wait.
When we chant the Holy Name, we are in direct communion
with the Supreme Lord, Śrī Kṛṣṇa, because Kṛṣṇa is non-different
from His Name. In the form of His Name, Kṛṣṇa, the most
important Personality in all creation, is giving us an audience.
Therefore, nothing should be allowed to interrupt this Holy
“Meeting”. (Remember: Where there is a will, there is a way).
- d) Intense Desire
The foundation of our spiritual life is intense desire. Our
strong desire and eagerness to chant the Holy Name is the most
pleasing to Kṛṣṇa and is the fundamental requirement of good
japa.
Strong desire must manifest in firm determination to chant
one’s prescribed quota of rounds everyday even in the midst of
adverse and trying circumstances and also in the firm endeavour
to improve one’s quality of japa. One must, therefore, be
determined to do every act necessary to come to the standard of
good japa qualitatively and quantitatively, and avoid every act
that can spoil one’s japa.
And how does one increase the intensity of one’s desire
and determination? By the process of “nityam bhāgavata
sevayā” - regularly serving the devotees and submissively
hearing Kṛṣṇa -kathā.
- e) Attentive Hearing
Our japa is as good as the quality of our hearing, therefore
attentive hearing is the most important aspect of japa. Śrīla
Prabhupāda says, “…Concentrate fully on the sound vibration of
the mantra, pronouncing each name distinctly…do not worry so
much about chanting fast, more important is hearing”. Again, “As
you chant, try to hear each word very carefully…”
Without attentive hearing our japa will become mechanical
and tasteless.
- f) Firm faith in the Holy Name
“What one should do is to chant the Holy Name of the Lord
with faith, enthusiasm and firm conviction on the statement of
Lord Caitanya that simply by chanting the Mahā-mantra, one can
be gradually elevated to the highest platform.”
- Śrīla Prabhupāda
- g) Understanding the meaning of the Maha-mantra
Since the Mahā-mantra is
the transcendental sound
vibration, it will act whether
one knows the meaning of the
mantra or not. Yet we must
know what exactly we are
praying when we chant the
Mahā-mantra.
- h) Prayerful Mood
Since the Hare Kṛṣṇa Mahā-mantra is a prayer, we must, with
full understanding of the meaning of the mantra, chant in a
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains:
“Our prayer of the Hare Kṛṣṇa Mahā-mantra
means addressing Rādhā and Kṛṣṇa for being
engaged in Their service.” “Hare Kṛṣṇa” means,
“O Hare! O Rādhārāṇi! O Kṛṣṇa! Please engage
me in Your service so that I can get relieved from
the service of māyā.”
prayerful mood. Our chanting must be like the desperate cry of a
lost child crying out for its mother. The mood must be one of
helplessness and utter dependence on Kṛṣṇa.
- i) No Material Motivation
In our bhakti-mārga, we are trained to
proceed towards the goal of unmotivated,
uninterrupted, pure devotional service to
the Lord. Therefore we should not seek
material benefits or facilities for sense
enjoyment through our chanting. The only
bona fide favour to ask from the Lord is His
service and the ability and opportunity to
chant His Holy Name always.
- j) Humility
Lord Caitanya says in his ‘Śikṣāṣṭakam’ prayers that unless one
is humbler than blade of grass (tṛṇād api sunīcena) one cannot
chant the Holy Name always. While humility comes naturally
and automatically in the course of one’s progress in bhakti, one
should also consciously attempt to be humble in all dealings and
ways, particularly with devotees. One must guard against false
pride and take action to subdue it the moment it raises its ugly
head. Pride and the Holy Name can never go together.
- k) Suitable Environment
One should select an environment that is conducive to good
japa. As far as is possible in a city like Mumbai, it should be an
isolated, quiet place where there are no distractions. Sitting in
one’s veranda and doing japa while watching life pass by on the
street, for example, is not a good way of doing japa.
Again, many devotees have to travel a long way by public
transport to their place of work. By all means, devotees may chant
while commuting, but such chanting should be considered bonus
Śrīla Prabhupāda says that we
should pray to Kṛṣṇa as follows, “My
dear Kṛṣṇa, please do not put me
into forgetfulness… even if you send
me to hell it doesn’t matter, so long
as I can always chant Hare Kṛṣṇa.”
chanting and not a part of prescribed quota of sixteen (16)
rounds as the quality of chanting will not be good.
- l) Posture - sitting, standing and walking
If one is alert in the mind the sitting posture makes
for very good quality japa. It is recommended that one
sit cross legged, with back erect. Leaning one’s back
against the wall or slouching one’s back or even resting
one’s elbows on one’s knees or thighs should be
avoided as they induce sleep very quickly. Worse still,
being sprawled out in the chair or lying in bed-these
are sure shot ways to fall asleep.
If one is feeling very sleepy or if the mind is
exceptionally restless, it is then better to stand or walk for
japa. After all, what good is it if the body is still but the
mind is moving fast here and there? Or not moving at all?
Again while standing one should avoid the
temptation to lean against a support lest one falls
asleep. The conditioned mind is always looking for
ways to cheat us from relishing Kṛṣṇa’s names.
Many devotees prefer to do japa while walking.
While this is certainly authorised by the ācaryas, one
should be careful to avoid looking here and there or to
get distracted by objects or people along the way. One
helpful suggestion is to walk with one’s head slightly
inclined downwards.
- m) Vigilance
One must be vigilant to maintain mental alertness at all times
during japa. If one feels sleepy while sitting down, one should
immediately stand up or walk. As and when the mind wanders,
one should immediately drag it back to focus on hearing the
Holy Name.
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- n) Japa is Not a Race
Sometimes it may be tempting to try to beat the clock, to rush
through one’s japa to finish sixteen (16) rounds in even lesser
time than yesterday. This must be avoided. Clear, attentive
chanting should always be the emphasis and one may adjust to a
speed that one is naturally comfortable with. The words of the
Mahā-mantra must not be ‘swallowed’. At no cost should the
quality of japa be compromised. For many devotees sixteen (16)
rounds take a little under two hours
- o) Always Discuss
Japa is so important that devotees should regularly discuss this
subject and emphasise its importance and share realisations.
- p) Japa-Best in Association of Devotees
While japa is an individual spiritual discipline, it is advisable
to do in association of devotees. While chanting alone, we may
become a little lax, neglectful or sleepy. In association of devotees
we are always under scrutiny and there is always someone to
check that we are not “spacing out”. When devotees chant japa
together, it sets up strong vibrations and it is wonderful to chant
in such an environment.
Thus, wherever possible devotees should attend the morning
japa at the Temple. Alternatively, devotees staying at home
locality can meet at common place on as many days as possible
and chant together. This is highly recommended.
- q) Japa Early Morning
Japa should be done early in the morning, ideally during the
‘Brāhma-Muhurta’ time. If that time is not possible, it should be
done at the earliest thereafter. Rising early is mandatory for all
devotees and there should be no compromise in this regard. It is
desirable to have a fixed time for one’s morning japa. Discipline
about timings is an important element of sādhanā bhakti. One
should try to finish at least 10 to 12 rounds definitely before
leaving home for work. The more the better.
- r) Loudness
Japa may be done softly to oneself or aloud. Good japa does
not necessarily mean loud japa. What is important is not how
loudly we are chanting, but how attentively we are hearing.
When chanting amongst other devotees we should be sensitive to
not disturb their concentration.
- s) Holy Name or Pastimes?
One question that is sometimes asked by devotes is whether
they can think of pastimes of Kṛṣṇa while doing japa.
- t) Offences against the Holy Name
One should avoid the ten offences against the
Holy Name. Śrīla Prabhupāda says that the ‘quality’
chanting means avoiding the above offences.
u)One should not forget to chant the Guru Praṇāma
mantra and the Pañca-tattva-mantra before
beginning to chant the Hare Kṛṣṇa Mahā-mantra.
Let’s see what Śrīla Prabhupāda says about this -
“…So you can not make any distinction between listening to the sound and
thinking of the pastimes. But the process is to hear, and then Kṛṣṇa’s pastimes, form,
qualities etc. will automatically come to mind…”
At another place Śrīla Prabhupāda says:
“…Generally, it is the process to simply chant and hear, but if Kṛṣṇa’s lila comes
into remembrance that is very good. It should come automatically… Not that you are
remembering artificially.”
These offences are listed
iAppendix IX at the end of this
section. (Pg No. 77)
Significance of Pañca-
tattva mantra is given in
Appendix VIII at the end of this
section. (Pg No. 76)
- a) One must strictly follow the four regulative principles
- No meat eating including fish and eggs. (and items like
onions, garlic and mushrooms).
- No intoxication including liquor, tea, coffee, tobacco in any
form, betel nut (paan), paan masala etc.
- No illicit sex (no sex outside of marriage and ideally no sex
within marriage that is not for procreation)
- No gambling including speculation on the stock market or in
business deals, lotteries and “lotto” games etc.
- b) Devotees should avoid:
- watching commercial films,
- television and non-devotional videos,
- reading novels and other non-devotional works,
- reading magazines that deal with films, sports, politics, sex,
social affairs etc.
- Such activities will simply contaminate our consciousness and
encourage us to violate the four regulative principles in deed.
- a) One must associate with devotees REGULARLY. ‘Regularly’
means as often as one possibly can in one’s given situation.
- b) The more one associates with sincere devotees, the faster the
progress one will make in Kṛṣṇa Consciousness.
- c) ‘Satsanga’ does not mean that the devotees simply gather together
physically. What is done in that association is important. The
basis for satsanga is Sankīrtana, Kṛṣṇa-kathā and sevā. Prajalpā,
(mundane talk) should be avoided.
- d) One should humble oneself in satsanga to submissively hear and
one should not be eager to simply speak.
- e) Association of devotees is our most prized possession, without
which our life becomes dry and meaningless. One is sure to drift
from Kṛṣṇa Consciousness if one does not regularly associate.
- f) Association may be in person (VAPU i.e. the physical presence of
the Guru and the Vaiṣṇavas) or in words (VĀṆĪ i.e. the
instruction of the Guru and the Vaiṣṇavas). Both are important.
- g) Satsanga will be meaningful when one tries sincerely to practice
in one’s life what one has carefully heard.
One should accept a counsellor who can be a friend and a guide.
- a) In as much as satsanga is required for maintaining a vibrant
spiritual life, avoiding asatsanga (i.e. association of non -
devotees) is equally important.
- b) One should minimise association with non-devotees as such
association contaminates our consciousness.
- c) One should associate with non-devotees only to the barest
minimum extent for:
fulfilling professional or
business duties
fulfilling basic social
obligations for e.g.
immediate relatives,
neighbours, colleagues, etc.
- d) Lord Caitanya taught Sanātana Goswāmī that the sum and
substance of a devotee’s behaviour is that he stays aloof from
unholy association.
- e) There are two kinds of unholy association
1.Association with one who is too much
attached to women (i.e. the opposite
sex) and material opulence.
2.Association with one who is not a
devotee of Lord Kṛṣṇa.
The Bhāgavatam says that by such association one
loses all good qualities such as truthfulness, cleanliness,
mercy, gravity, intelligence, etc. and all opulence that are
automatically obtained by a devotee. A man is never so
degraded as when he comes into such unholy association.
Lord Caitanya says, quoting
scripture, that one should
rather be locked in a cage filled with
fire than associate with non-devotees.
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- a) Devotees should daily read the books of the Śrila Prabhupāda for
e.g. Bhagavad-Gītā, Śrīmad Bhāgavatam, etc. One may begin with
the smaller books like Nectar of Instruction, Perfect Questions
Perfect Answers, Kṛṣṇa Consciousness: Matchless Gift.
- b) Other books should be avoided.
- c) Reading must be done in a serious, attentive and systematic way
and not casually like one would read a novel. It is advisable to
take notes as one reads and to memorise important ślokas.
- d) Reading is necessary to improve our philosophical
understanding. It strengthens our conviction, faith and
determination.
- e) Reading is important for a preacher.
- f) ‘Reading’ is also ‘hearing’.
One should also avail of the good collection of lectures that are
on tape in the Temple library.
- a) One should try to engage in some specific sevā for the mission of
the spiritual master. One may consult one’s counsellor in this
regard.
- b) There are also different kinds of sevā that may be performed in
the Temple and in the Temple programmes.
- a) It is very necessary for all the gṛhastas to perform worship of the
Deities in their homes. The Deities may be pictures, or made of
wood, clay, marble, metal etc. The altar may be designed and
arranged according to one’s means.
- b) One may take assistance of other devotees in regard to
details of setting up the altar, procedures and standard of
worship, paraphernalia required etc.
- c) Worship of Gaur-Nitāi as the presiding Deities has great benefit
for homes although worship of Rādhā-Kṛṣṇa may also be done.
- d) Standard altar is Guru, Param Guru, Gaur-Nitāi or Pañca-tattva
and Rādhā-Kṛṣṇa.
- e) It is not expected that standard of Deity worship at homes will be
like that for installed Deities in the Temple. Yet efforts must be
made to ensure regularity of worship according to one’s
schedules and circumstances.
- f) Coming to the Temple is always the priority. We may put our
home Deities to rest for this purpose.
- g) Certain minimum requirements are, for e.g.
Everything cooked in the house should be offered to the Deities.
It is suggested that ārati be performed at least twice a day (in the
morning and evening, accompanied by kīrtana)
All āratis must be preceded by an offering.
While performing ārati one must not talk, gesture, look back etc..
- h) While the family is out-of station the Deities may be put to rest.
- i) Children may also be engaged in the worship of the Deities.
- j) Taking care of the Deities, preparing offerings for them, stitching
clothes and making jewellery for them is very nice purifying
engagement and all members of the family may be involved
- k) Tulasīdevī:
Where possible the Tulasī plant may be kept in the house. Proper
exposure to sunlight and watering are required.
Her leaves may be put into each offering for Kṛṣṇa and also at His
Lotus Feet.
It is to be noted that Tulasī leaves should not be placed at
The procedure for performing ārati is given iAppendix X.. pg No. 78.
the lotus feet of Guru or even Srīmatī Rādhāraṇi or in the
offerings to the Guru. Tulasī leaves may, however, be placed in
Rādhāraṇi’s Hands.
Tulasīdevī is Kṛṣṇa’s favourite plant. It is said that Kṛṣṇa does
not accept the offerings unless Tulasī is present (when available).
If possible worship of Tulasīdevī may be performed.
- l) Special care should be taken while stitching Deity outfits and
making garlands:
For threading the needles, saliva should not be used.
Flowers, clothes etc. should not be placed on the floor but on
a special cloth for this purpose.
Only fragrant and uncontaminated flowers should be offered.
- a) A devotee’s sādhanā must include some basic austerities like
rising early in the morning, bathing in cool water, regulation of
food and drink, regulation of one’s association, minimising
bodily comforts and possessions and so on. These have been
covered earlier.
- b) An important austerity for devotees is to fast on certain specified
days like Ekādaśī, on important festivals and
appearance/disappearance days of ācaryas.
- c) EKĀDAŚĪ
Ekādaśī is the eleventh day of both the waxing and waning
moon & thus it comes twice in each month. It is a day of austerity
regularly observed by Vaiṣṇavas.
The basic principle is not just to fast, but to increase one’s
faith and love for KṚṢṆA. Hence all devotees must observe
Ekādaśī fast.
The real reason for observing fasting on Ekādaśī is to minimise
demands of the body and to engage our time in devotional service.
The fasting is to be broken the next day that is Dvādaśī during
the parāṇa-timings as given in the Vaiṣṇava calendar.
It is advised that one may chant more and also try to remember
the pastimes of the Lord.
On Ekādaśī, one should strictly avoid eating grains and beans.
If one can follow complete fasting (i.e. abstaining from both
food and drink) and still perform one’s duties and
responsibilities, then one may do so.
However, ours is a preaching mission and if complete fasting
impedes our service or preaching, it should not be followed. One
may then consume the minimum food and drink
essential to maintain one’s service.
One must try to observe complete fast on Nirjala
(Bhīma) Ekādaśī.
- d) CĀTUR-MĀSYA
Traditionally this four-month period of the monsoon season is
the time when sādhus would reside at one place and not travel.
The prescribed austerity in these four months is as given in the
table below.
For further details please
referAAppppeennddiixx XI at the end of
this section. (Pg No. 82)
Month &Items to be avoided
- 1stĀṣādha Green Leafy vegetables
- 2ndBhādrapada Yoghurt
- 3rdĀṣwina Milk
- 4thKārtika Urad Dal
PRINCIPLES
- a) Śrīla Rupa Goswāmī says in Nectar of Instruction (verses 2 & 3):
“One’s devotional service is spoiled when he becomes too
entangled in the following six activities:
1. eating more than necessary or collecting more funds than
required,
2. over endeavouring for mundane things that are very difficult
to obtain,
3. talking unnecessarily about mundane subject matters,
4. practising the spiritual rules and regulations only for the sake
of following them and not following regulations of the
scriptures and working independently or whimsically,
5. associating with worldly minded persons who are not
interested in Kṛṣṇa Consciousness,
6. being greedy for mundane achievements.”
- b) “There are six principles favourable to execution of devotional
service:
1. being enthusiastic,
2. endeavouring with confidence,
3. being patient,
4. acting according to regulative principles (such as śravaṇam,
kīrtanam, viṣṇoḥ smaraṇam-hearing, chanting and
remembering Kṛṣṇa),
5. abandoning the association of non-devotees, and
6. following in the footsteps of the previous ācaryas”.
These six principles undoubtedly assure complete success of
pure devotional service.
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- a) Devotees who have second (Brāhmaṇa) dikśā should strictly
chant the Gāyatrī mantra.
- b) Every endeavour must be made to learn the principles and
practice of Deity worship.
Please remember :
- Every moment of human life is very precious. So we should
not waste a single moment.
- We should make every endeavour to see that we are engaged
as much as possible in the devotional service of the Lord.
- The great benediction we have received should not be wasted.
Part VI: Visiting Holy Dhāmas
Guidelines for pilgrimage, yātrā discipline, and avoiding offences in the Holy Dhāma.
- i) Travelling together in pilgrimage to the various Holy places is an
important and eagerly awaited element of Vaiṣṇava lifestyle.
- i) One should plan well and tie up loose ends in one’s domestic and
official responsibilities so that one can minimise worrisome
thoughts during the yātrā. The idea is that one should prepare
oneself for completely immersing the mind in the Holy Name
and Kṛṣṇa-kathā.
- ii) Such yātrās are meant for spiritual purification and thus there
should be no ‘prajalpā’ and frivolous behaviour. There should be
only Kṛṣṇa-kathā and the Holy Name.
- iv) Devotees should freely and lovingly associate with one another
avoiding tendency to form groups according to prior
acquaintance.
- v) Devotees should willingly comply with any rules and
discipline that may laid down for the yātrā. This will help in
not only making the organising effort easier but also will
create a better atmosphere.
Particularly, devotees should follow rules regarding timings for
re-assembling after a break and staying together i.e. not
dispersing here and there. Devotees should never lag behind but
should be all together at all times.
- vi) One must be willing to bear austerity and inconveniences
without complaining. Suggestions if any regarding the
arrangement travel plans etc. may be submitted humbly to the
proper persons. Criticism and complaints simply spoil the
atmosphere of the yātrā.
- vii) One should not try to join the yātrā at the last minute.
Announcements are made well in advance and one should submit
one’s name {and the money (Lakṣmi)} to the organisers by the
stipulated date.
viii)One should not recommend names of people who are very new
or not so sincere or who are not following the basic regulative
principles.
- ix) One should stay with the devotees for the whole yātrā. No
independent plans should be made to travel to other places or do
other jobs during the yātrā.
- x) Every single devotee should contribute to maintain a high
spiritual tempo. Even one unenthusiastic or lazy devotee has a
disturbing influence on the mood of the yātrā.
- xi) One should be eager to lend a helping hand in serving the
devotees and simply be content with receiving a chance to render
service.
- xii) Devotees should not buy “special” foodstuffs from outside for
themselves. The spirit of the yātrā should be to eat and live
together as one family.
xiii)One should be careful not to commit offences against the Holy
Dhāma.
- xiv) If during the yātrā, the devotees together visit ISKCON or
Gaudiya Maṭha Temples, we must very carefully respect the
principles and the policies of the Temple. For instance, in
ISKCON Temples we should not chant any Guru’s name except
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s. We should avoid any form of argumentation.
1.Contempt and disrespect towards the Guru who is the revealer of
the dhāma to his disciple.
2.To think that the holy dhāma is temporary.
3.To commit violence towards any of the residents of the holy
dhāma or to any of the pilgrims who come there, or to think that
they are ordinary mundane people.
4.Performing mundane activities while living in the holy place.
5.Earning money by making a business of Deity worship and the
chanting of the holy name.
6.To think that the holy dhāma belongs to some mundane country
or to province such as Bengal, or think that the dhāma of the Lord
is equal to a holy place connected with some demigod, or to
attempt to measure the area of the dhāma.
7.To commit sinful acts while residing in the dhāma.
8.To consider Vṛndāvana and Navadvīpa to be different.
9.To blaspheme the śāstras which glorify the dhāma.
10.To be faithless and think that the glories of the dhāma are
imaginary.
Appendices: Mantras, Prayers & Detailed Procedures
Sanskrit prayers, daily offering procedures, Ekādaśī guidelines, and worship instructions.
Śrila Prabhupāda praṇati
nama oṁ viṣṇu-pādāya kṛṣṇa-preṣṭhāya bhū-tale
śrīmate bhaktivedānta-svāmin iti nāmine
namas te sārasvate deve gaura-vāṇī-pracāriṇe
nirviśeṣa-śūnyavādi-pāścātya-deśa-tāriṇe
“I offer my respectful obeisances unto His Divine Grace A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami
Prabhupāda, who is very dear to Lord Kṛṣṇa, having taken shelter at His lotus feet. Our
respectful obeisances are unto you, O spiritual master, servant of Bhakti Siddhānta
Saraswatī Goswāmī. You are kindly preaching the message of Lord Caitanyadeva and
delivering the Western countries, which are filled with impersonalism and voidism.”
Gaurāṅga praṇāma
namo mahā-vadānyāya kṛṣṇa-prema-pradāya te
kṛṣṇāya kṛṣṇa-caitanya-nāmne gaura-tviṣe namaḥ
“O most munificent incarnation! You are Kṛṣṇa Himself appearing as Śrī Kṛṣṇa
Caitanya Mahāprabhu. You have assumed the golden colour of Śrīmatī Rādhāraṇi, and You
are widely distributing pure love of Kṛṣṇa. We offer our respectful obeisances unto You.”
Śrī Kṛṣṇa praṇāma
he kṛṣṇa karuṇā-sindho dīna-bandho jagat-pate
gopeśa gopikā-kānta rādhā-kānta namo ’stu te
“O my dear Kṛṣṇa, You are the friend of the distressed and the source of creation. You
are the master of the gopīs and the lover of Rādhāraṇi. I offer my respectful obeisances
unto You.”
Pañca – Tattva mantra
śrī-kṛṣṇa-caitanya prabhu-nityānanda
śrī-advaita gadādhara śrīvāsādi-gaura-bhakta-vṛnda
I offer my obeisances to Śrī Kṛṣṇa Caitanya, Prabhu Nityānanda, Śrī Advaita,
Gadādhara, Śrīvāsa and all others in the line of devotion.
(Praṇāma /Namaskāra)
In the early morning or whenever visiting temple one should
offer obeisances to the Deities only after waking Them, because it
is enjoined in śāstras that one should not disturb the Lord by
offering obeisances when the Lord is resting or bathing. (Nor
should one circumambulate the Lord at these times.)
Also, one should offer obeisances just outside the Deity room,
never inside, since it is enjoined to offer obeisances from a
respectful distance. Within the Deity room, offer praṇāmas with
joined palms, by mantra and with the mind.
Aṣṭāṅga Praṇāma :
The Hari-bhakti-vilāsa tells how to offer daṇḍavat-praṇāma:
Offer obeisances with eight aṅgas – your feet, knees, chest,
hands, head, sight, mind and words. With your two feet, knees,
chest, hands and head touching the ground and with your eyes
downcast and half open, recite a suitable prayer while meditating
that your head is under the Lord’s lotus feet.
(Your hands should be extended out in front of your head, not
next to your head or tucked in next to your chest.)
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Pañcāṅga Praṇāma :
To make pañcāṅga praṇāma, offer
obeisances with five aṅgas – knees, arms, head,
intellect and words. (The chest does not touch
the ground.)
It is an offense to offer obeisances with only
one hand – that is, with one hand extended in
front of the head while the other holds a bead
bag or other sacred item off the floor. Before
offering obeisances, set down anything you are
holding.
Men may perform either type of praṇāma,
but women traditionally perform only
pañcāṅga-praṇāma.
While offering obeisances, first recite your
own spiritual master’s praṇāma-mantra, then
Śrila Prabhupāda’s and then the praṇāma
mantras for the Deities on the altar.
OFFERING RESPECT TO VAIṢṆAVAS
Sometimes we should refrain from offering
a Vaiṣṇava obeisances physically because
doing so might inconvenience him. You are
not, however, forbidden to offer respects in
your mind; you should then take the next
opportunity to offer physical obeisances.
These rules apply when offering respects to
any superior person; whether a Vaiṣṇava or
non-Vaiṣṇava.
A further point is that there are two times
when we should offer obeisances to a superior,
namely first when we see the superior person
and again when he or she sees us.
The Bṛhan-Nāradīya
Purāṇa forbids us to offer
obeisances to a Vaiṣṇava
while he is bathing, collecting wood
for a sacrifice, picking flowers,
carrying water, or honouring
prasādam. If you are in an impure
state – for example, if you are
eating, bathing or wearing shoes or
if your head is covered – you should
neither offer nor receive obeisances
physically.
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After putting on clean cloth, sit on a
purified āsana (preferably a kuśa-grass mat)
and apply ūrdhva-puṇḍra or Viṣṇu-tilaka, on
twelve parts of the body. You should not apply
tilaka in the bathroom.
Tilaka refers to marks placed on the body
using various substances. Ūrdhva-puṇḍra
refers to the two vertical marks placed on the
forehead and other parts of the body to
indicate surrender to Lord Viṣṇu.
The Padma Purāṇa and Yajur Veda state that
ūrdhva-puṇḍra symbolizes the lotus feet of
Viṣṇu. The twelve parts of the body on which
we place the ūrdhva-puṇḍra marks are not arbitrary points. They
are sensitive points that easily absorb the spiritual energy generated
by reciting the names of Viṣṇu and mentally placing the Lord in
those positions.
If a devotee applies the marks of the Lord and chants His
Name, the Lord becomes pleased and resides with him. In this
way the material body becomes a sanctified temple of the Lord.
The Brahmāṇḍa Purāṇa states that a devotee who applies his
tilaka with great care while looking in a mirror or looking at his
reflection in water goes to the Lord’s supreme abode.
By applying tilaka on these places and reciting Viṣṇu’s Names
one sanctifies and dedicates the body to the Lord’s service.
The Hari-bhakti-vilāsa mentions that the ūrdhva-puṇḍra tilaka
may vary in shape, colour and material according to a devotee’s
Sampradāya, but other features are shared.
It should not be crooked, uneven, uncentered, dirty or bad smelling.
Śrila Prabhupāda glorifies tilaka
in the following Śrīmad
Bhagavatam purport:
In Kali-yuga one can hardly
acquire gold or jewelled
ornaments, but the twelve tilaka
marks on the body are sufficient as
auspicious decorations to purify
the body.
(SB 4.12.28 purport)
On the forehead, the centre position between the two lines
should be open from the eyebrows to the hairline, but should be
joined at the bottom. The solid portion (tulasī) may extend three
quarters of the way down the nose. While applying tilaka two
vertical lines which represent the lotus feet of the lord are drawn
first, then the tulasī leaf is drawn.
Lord Viṣṇu is said to reside in the central portion, while
Brahmā resides on the left and Śiva on the right.
Śrila Prabhupāda advised devotees in New York to try to avoid
spilling liquid gopi-candana while mixing it in the palm of the
hand, “Do not waste it. It is precious.” If it is fallen on the ground,
immediately clear the area.
Chant the following verses (A) while rubbing gopi-
candana in your left palm; then, while applying tilaka and
clearing the middle space, chant the name of the appropriate
form of the Lord (B).
Alternatively, chant the verses given below one line at a time
while applying the tilaka to the indicated places on your body.
After each line of the verse, while clearing the space in the middle
(where the Lord resides), chant the name of the appropriate form
of the Lord.
(Example: Chant lalāṭe keśavaṁ dhyāyenand apply tilaka to your
forehead; then chant oṁ keśavāya namaḥand clear the space in the
middle.)
(A)
lalāṭe keśavaṁ dhyāyen nārāyaṇam athodare
vakṣaḥ-sthale mādhavaṁ tu govindaṁ kaṇṭha-kūpake
viṣṇuṁ ca dakṣiṇe kukṣau bāhau ca madhusūdanam
trivikramaṁ kandhare tu vāmanaṁ vāma-pārśvake
śrīdharaṁ vāma-bāhau tu hṛṣīkeśaṁ tu kandhare
pṛṣṭhe ca padmanābhaṁ ca kaṭyāṁ dāmodaraṁ nyaset
(B)
- 1) The forehead :oṁ keśavāya namaḥ
- 2) The belly (above the navel) :oṁ nārāyaṇāya namaḥ
- 3) The chest :oṁ mādhavāya namaḥ
- 4) The throat :oṁ govindāya namaḥ
- 5) The right side of the belly :oṁ viṣṇave namaḥ
- 6) The right arm :oṁ madhusūdanāya namaḥ
- 7) The right shoulder :oṁ trivikramāya namaḥ
- 8) The left side of the belly :oṁ vāmanāya namaḥ
- 9) The left arm :oṁ śrīdharāya namaḥ
- 10)The left shoulder :oṁ hṛṣikeśāya namaḥ
- 11) The upper back :oṁ padmanābhāya namaḥ
- 12) The lower back :oṁ dāmodarāya namaḥ
The śikhā area is not marked with tilaka; rather, after washing the right
hand, wipe the remaining water on your śikhā while chanting oṁ
vāsudevāya namaḥ.
PRAYERS
- jaya oṁ Viṣṇu-pāda Paramahaṁsa Parivrājakācārya Aṣṭottara-śata Śrī
Śrīmad A.C. Bhaktivedānta Svāmī Mahārāja Śrīla Prabhupāda — kī jaya.
All glories to the ācārya Oṁ Viṣṇu-pāda 108 Tridaṇḍī Gosvāmī A. C.
Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda, who travels everywhere, preaching the glories
of Hari, and who is situated on the highest platform of sannyāsa.
ISKCON - BT Founder-Ācārya Śrīla Prabhupāda — kī jaya.
All glories to Śrīla Prabhupāda, the Founder-Ācārya of the International Society
for Kṛṣṇa Consciousness.
- jaya oṁ Viṣṇu-pāda Paramahaṁsa Parivrājakācārya Aṣṭottara-śata Śrī
Śrīmad Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Gosvāmī Mahārāja Śrīla Prabhupāda —
kī jaya.
All glories to the ācārya Oṁ Viṣṇu-pāda 108 Tridaṇḍī Gosvāmī
Bhaktisiddhānta Sarasvatī Prabhupāda, who travels across the earth, preaching the
glories of Hari, and who is situated on the highest platform of sannyāsa.
ananta koṭi vaiṣṇava-vṛnda — kī jaya.
All glories to the unlimited millions of Vaiṣṇavas.
- nāmācārya śrīla haridāsa ṭhākura — kī jaya.
All glories to the Nāmācārya Śrīla Haridāsa Ṭhākura.
- prem-se kaho śrī-kṛṣṇa-caitanya prabhu nityānanda śrī advaita, gadādhara,
śrīvāsādi gaura-bhakta-vṛnda — kī jaya.
Call out with love the names Śrī Kṛṣṇa Caitanya, Prabhu Nityānanda, Śrī
Advaita, Śrī Gadādhara, Śrīvāsa and all the devotees of Lord Caitanya.
- śrī śrī rādha-kṛṣṇa, gopa-gopīnatha, śyāma-kuṇḍa, rādhā-kuṇḍa giri-
govardhana — kī jaya.
All glories to Rādhā and Kṛṣṇa, the cowherd boys and girls, the cows, Śyāma-
kuṇḍa, Rādhā-kuṇḍa and Govardhana Hill.
(One may glorify the Deities of the temple at this time.)
- śrī māyāpur dhāma — kī jaya.
All glories to Śrī Māyāpur-dhāma.
- śrī vṛndāvana dhāma — kī jaya.
All glories to Śrī Vṛndāvana-dhāma.
- śrī jagannātha puri — kī jaya.
All glories to Śrī jagannatha puri dhāma
- gaṅgā-mayī — kī jaya.
All glories to Gaṅgā-devī.
- yamunā-mayī — kī jaya.
All glories to Yamunā-devī.
- tulasī-devī — kī jaya.
All glories to Tulasī-devī.
- bhakti-devī — kī jaya.
All glories to Bhakti-devī.
- śrī hari-nāma saṅkīrtana — kī jaya.
All glories to the congregational chanting of the holy name of Hari.
- samaveta bhakta-vṛnda — kī jaya.
All glories to the assembled devotees.
- gaura-premānande — hari-haribol.
- All glories to the assembled devotees.[three times]
- All glories to Śrī Guru and Śrī Gaurāṅga.
BHOGA
After all the items of the bhoga have been placed properly in
the Deities’ plates and cups, they should be placed on the altar.
The following mantras should be chanted three times each
while ringing a bell with the left hand :
- i) Śrīla Prabhupāda praṇati mantra.
i)namo mahā-vadānyāya kṛṣṇa-prema-pradāya te
kṛṣṇāya kṛṣṇa-caitanya-nāmne gaura-tviṣe namaḥ
“O most munificent incarnation! You are Kṛṣṇa Himself
appearing as Śrī Kṛṣṇa Caitanya Mahāprabhu. You have assumed
the golden colour of Srīmatī Rādhāraṇi, and You are widely
distributing the pure love of Kṛṣṇa. We offer our respectful
obeisances unto You.”
ii)
namo brahmaṇya-devāya go-brāhmaṇa-hitāya ca
jagad-dhitāya kṛṣṇāya govindāya namo namaḥ
“My Lord, You are the well wisher of the cows and the
brāhmaṇas, and You are the well wisher of the entire human
society and world.”
The offering should be left on the altar for few minutes and then
removed after offering obeisances.
(These prayers should be sung before honouring the Lord’s prasādam)
- 1) The Glorification of the Lord’s Prasāda
mahā-prasāde govinde
nāma-brahmaṇi vaiṣṇave
sv-alpa-puṇya-vatāṁ rājan
viśvāso naiva jāyate
“O King! For those who have amassed very few pious
activities, their faith in mahā – prasādam, Śrī Govinda, in the
Holy Name and in the Vaiṣṇava is never born.” -Mahābhārata
- 2) Prasāda-sevāya
śarīra avidyā-jāl, jadendriya tāhe kāl
jīve phele viṣaya-sāgare
tā’ra madhye jihvā ati-, lobhamay sudurmati,
tā’ke jetā kaṭhina saṁsāre
kṛṣṇa baḍa dayāmay, karibāre jihvā jay,
sva-prasādānna dila bhāi
sei annāmṛta pāo, rādhā-kṛṣṇa-guṇa gāo,
preme ḍāko caitanya-nitāi
“O Lord, this material body is a lump of ignorance, and the
senses are a network of paths to death. Somehow, we have fallen
into this ocean of material sense enjoyment, and of all the senses
the tongue is most voracious and uncontrollable; it is very
difficult to conquer the tongue in this world. But You, dear Kṛṣṇa,
are very kind to us and have given us such nice prasādam, just to
control the tongue. Now we take this prasādam to our full
satisfaction and glorify Their Lordships Śrī Śrī Rādhā-Kṛṣṇa, and
in love call for the help of Lord Caitanya and Lord Nityānanda.”
- 3)
bhāi re!
ek-dina śāntipure, prabhu adwaitera ghare,
dui prabhu bhojane bosilo
śāk kori’ āswādana, prabhu bole bhakta-gaṇa,
ei śāk kṛṣṇa āswādilo
heno śāk-āswādane, kṛṣṇa-prema āise mane,
sei preme koro āswādana
jaḍa-buddhi pari hari’, prasāda bhojana kori’,
‘hari hari’ bolo sarva-jan
O brothers! One day at Śāntipur, in Śrī Advaita’s house, Lord
Caitanya and Nityānanda were seated for lunch. When Lord
Caitanya tasted the green leafy vegetables, He said, “O My
devotees, this śākis so delicious! Lord Kṛṣṇa has definitely
tasted it.
“At the taste of such śākas this, love of Kṛṣṇa arises in the
heart. In such love of God you should taste this prasāda. Giving
up all materialistic conceptions, and taking the Lord’s prasāda, all
of you just chant ‘Hari! Hari!’ ”
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PART II
– ATITHI-SEVĀ (in the
temple or at home)
The Sanskrit word ‘atithi’means ‘not scheduled’. An
‘unscheduled’ or unexpected guest is considered a representative
of the Supreme Lord, since his arriving unannounced is just what
the Lord might do to test His devotee and see how ready he is to
serve Him in any situation. With this understanding, one should
serve the guests.
The Lord’s temple, whether open to the public or in one’s
home, should be a place where visitors can take part in temple
activities as far as possible.
In the International Society for Krishna Consciousness,
the proper reception of guests is very important, since the
society is a preaching mission.
Proper reception of a guest can make the difference
between a person coming once to the temple and never
returning, or becoming a regular visitor and ultimately
becoming a devotee of Kṛṣṇa.
Regular visitors, invited guests, life members, visiting
Vaiṣṇavas, relatives of Vaiṣṇavas – all should be treated in
such a way that they will feel comfortable and want to come
again.
Every devote should learn how to take care of guests, but
temple devotees who regularly worship the Deity should especially
be expert in this matter, for they directly represent the Proprietor
of the temple. Even the most first-class, opulent Deity worship will
fail to attract a guest if the temple residents neglect him.
Proper reception of guests is the special duty of the gṛhastha.
If the gṛhastha does not receive an unexpected guest warmly, no
As followers of
Śrila Prabhupāda,
the Founder-
Ācārya of
ISKCON, we
should consider
any guest in the
temple to be his
guest.
matter who he is, he commits a great sin. Not only gṛhasthas,
however, but everyone in every āśrama and varṇa should properly
receive guests.
The main elements in receiving guests are the offering of
proper respect and conveniences, including food and water, a
place to sit, kind words, any services for the comfort of the guest
(such as bathing facilities), and a place to rest.
When the guest first arrives, you should go out to meet him
and when the visitor departs, you should accompany him, at least
out of the premises or the yard.
Offering simple or elaborate
worship. (For practical purposes, you
may worship the guests with two
articles – sandalwood paste and flowers
or garlands or a seat and water for
washing the feet.)
Giving gifts such as cloth, gold,
money or grains.
One should respect elders, parents
and teachers by rising from a sitting
position, identifying oneself and
offering obeisances. Worship and gifts are reserved for the
spiritual master.
PROPER BEHAVIOUR AS A GUEST
A Vaiṣṇava guest should behave ideally, whether his host is
another Vaiṣṇava or a well-wisher of Vaiṣṇavas. What follows are a
few commonly accepted points of etiquette for Vaiṣṇava guests :
- 1) If you are an invited guest, you should not overstay your
invitation. For example, if invited for a meal, you may rest a short
time after the meal to aid your digestion, but do not burden your
According to the Pañcarātrika-vidhi
one shows respect by :
- Rising from one’s seat when a
superior approaches.
- Identifying oneself by name and
offering greetings.
- Offering prostrated obeisances with
five or eight limbs.
host by staying and conversing for several hours, unless
encouraged to do so.
- 2) Do not bring your own guests on the strength of your invitation.
If you wish to invite other guests, ask your host’s permission.
- 3) If you are permitted to use a telephone, fax machine or other such
facilities, offer to pay accrued expenses.
- 4) When planning to visit a friend or acquaintance uninvited, try to
let your prospective host know when you will arrive and how
long you intend to stay.
- 5) Unless you have been invited or have informed your host, try to
avoid arriving at a temple or your host’s house at noon time or
early afternoon, when both the Deity and persons in general rest
after lunch.
- 6) If you stay for some days at your host’s house, it is
appropriate to give token gifts to the household residents as a
gesture of gratitude.
PROCEDURE FOR RECEPTION OF VAIṢṆAVAS
You should give great attention to receiving senior Vaiṣṇavas,
sannyāsīs and especially your spiritual master. Before the
Vaiṣṇava guest arrives, his living quarters should be arranged,
cleaned and provided with necessities (such as pañca-pātra,
mirror, tilaka, towels, drinking water and fresh bedding). If
possible, provide a set of Śrila Prabhupāda’s books. You may also
provide some incense, an incense holder and matches. The
guest’s quarters may also be decorated with flower vases,
devotional pictures and so on.
When a Vaiṣṇava guest arrives, you should go out to greet him,
preferably with a kīrtana, garlands and sandalwood paste (unless
it is cold outside). You should offer obeisances and kind words
and should direct the guest to a seat. If you are receiving your
spiritual master, you should worship him at this time (with his
permission) by offering him āratī, offering flowers at his feet and
paying obeisances. You should be prepared to offer the guest
prasādam immediately, but you should first inquire whether the
guest wishes to first bathe or rest before accepting prasādam.
When appropriate, you should introduce the guest to other
residents of the temple, or household and should inquire if there
is some service you may render.
You may also ask the guest how long he intends to stay taking
care not to give the impression that you are looking forward to
his departure. Rather, you should encourage your guest to stay
longer than he had planned.
60
MANTRA
(jaya) śrī-kṛṣṇa-caitanya prabhu-nityānanda
śrī-advaita gadādhara śrīvāsādi-gaura-bhakta-vṛnda
Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu is always accompanied by His plenary
expansion Śrī Nityananda Prabhu, His incarnation Śrī Advaita Prabhu,
His internal potency Śrī Gadādhara Prabhu, and His marginal potency,
Śrīvāsa Prabhu. He is in the midst of them as the Supreme Personality of
Godhead. One should know that Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu is always
accompanied by these other tattvas. Therefore our obeisances to Śrī
Caitanya Mahāprabhu are complete when we say, śrī-kṛṣṇa-caitanya
prabhu-nityānanda śrī-advaita gadādhara śrīvāsādi-gaura-bhakta-vṛndaAs
preachers of Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement, we first offer our
obeisances to Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu by chanting the Pañca tattva
mantra and then we say,
Hare Kṛṣṇa, Hare Kṛṣṇa, Kṛṣṇa Kṛṣṇa, Hare Hare
Hare Rama, Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare Hare
There are ten offenses to the chanting of the Hare Kṛṣṇa mahā-mantra,
but these are not considered in the chanting of the Pañca-tattva mantra,
namely, śrī-kṛṣṇa-caitanya prabhu-nityānanda śrī-advaita, gadādhara
śrīvāsādi-gaura-bhakta-vṛnda- Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu is known as
mahā–vadānyāya avatār, the most magnanimous incarnation, for He does
not consider the offenses of the fallen souls. Thus to derive the full
benefit of the chanting of the mahā-mantra Hare Kṛṣṇa, Hare Kṛṣṇa,
Kṛṣṇa Kṛṣṇa, Hare Hare Hare, Rama, Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare
Harewe must first take shelter of Śrī Caitanya Mahāprabhu, learn the
Pañca-tattva mantra, and then chant the Hare Kṛṣṇa mahā-mantra. That
will be very effective.
1. To blaspheme the devotees who have dedicated their lives for
propagating the holy name of the Lord.
2. To consider the names of demigods like Lord Śiva or Lord Brahmā
to be equal to or independent of the name of Lord Viṣṇu.
3. To disobey the orders of the spiritual master.
4. To blaspheme the Vedic literature or literature in pursuance of the
Vedic version.
5.To consider the glories of chanting Hare Kṛṣṇa to be an
imagination.
6.To give some interpretation on the holy name of the Lord.
7.To commit sinful activities on the strength of the holy name of the
Lord.
8.To consider the chanting of Hare Kṛṣṇa as one of the auspicious
ritualistic activities which are offered in the Vedās as fruitive
activities (Karma - kāṇḍa).
9.To instruct a faithless person about the glories of the holy name.
10.To not have complete faith in the chanting of the holy name and
to maintain material attachments, even after understanding so
many instructions on this matter. It is also an offense to be
inattentive while chanting.
Every devotee who claims to be Vaiṣṇava must guard against
these offenses in order to quickly achieve the desired success –
KṚṢṆA PREMA.
1. The following items should be
set up in a plate & kept at the
left side of the altar
- Three sticks of incense
(agarbatti)
- Ghee lamp (with single wick.
If possible, with 5 wicks)
- Conchshell for bathing the
Deities
- Small vessel containing water for bathing
- A fine cloth or napkin
- Fragrant flowers on a small plate
2. The other items that should already be there near the altar are:
- i) cāmara fan
- i) peacock feather fan
- ii) bell
- iv) pañcapātra (for performing
ācamana)
- v) blowing conchshell
- vi) āsana (i.e mat) to stand / sit
on while offering arati
3.Ācamana
- i) Ācamana is performed to purify oneself
before commencing worship. The water
for ācamana is placed in the small vessel
(Pañcapātra) meant for this purpose.
- i) One should place three spoonfuls
(special spoons for this purpose called
kusi) of water from pañcapātra in the
palm of the right hand and after saying
“oṁ keśavāya namaḥ”, one should sip a
little and after placing one more drop,
throw the water to the side.
- ii) This process should be repeated twice as before, first substituting
the mantra “oṁ nārāyaṇāya namaḥ”, and then the mantra “oṁ
mādhavāya namaḥ.”
- iv) Finally, one should place three drops in the palm as earlier and
throw the water away to the side, chanting the mantra “oṁ
govindāya namaḥ.”
One should then offer obeisances & request Gurudeva for
permission to begin worship.
4. Thesequence of ārati is as follows:
- i) The conchshell is blown three times to signify the
commencement of the ārati. The conchshell is then rinsed off
with water from the pañcapātra.
- i) Before offering each article, purify both your right hand and
the article by sprinkling them with water from the pañca-
pātra. You can purify the article by taking the spoon in your
right hand and sprinkling water on the article directly from
the spoon. The article is then offered with the right hand
while one rings the bell with left hand by holding above
waist level.
- ii) All items should be offered 3 times to Guru, once to Param
Guru for taking permission to offer to the Deities in the
ascending order; then from Lord Kṛṣṇa to Guru in the
descending order for blessings. Tulasīdevī, wherever be
present must also be offered these items in 3 circles.
Finally, the items must be offered in three circles to the
assembled Vaiṣṇavas.
- iv) The incense should be offered to each Deity seven times to all
the limbs of the body (by making a circle around the body of
the Deity).
- v) The ghee lamp is offered to each Deity four times to the Lotus
Feet, twice to the Waist, three times to the Lotus Face and
seven times around the Body.
- vi) The water meant for bathing is poured into the bathing
conchshell. The conchshell is then offered three times
above the Deity’s head and then seven times around the
body of the Deity.
- vii) The cloth (for wiping of the Deity’s body after bath) should
be offered seven times around the body of the Deity.
viii)The flowers are offered seven times around the body of
the Deity.
- ix) The cāmara is then offered by carefully swinging it.
- x) The peacock fan is similarly offered, except in the
winter months (i.e. usually from Kārtika to Śivarātrī it
is not offered).
- xi) One must remember to ring the bell with the left hand while
each item is being offered.
- xii) The pujārī performing aratī, while offering various items to
spiritual master and assembled Vaiṣṇavasshould not offer
them below their waist level or to their feet. The various
items offered as mahā-prasādam should be waved three times
around the face.
xiii)The conchshell should be blown three times to signify the
end of ārati and the conchshell is then rinsed off with water
from the pañcapātra.
- xiv) Prema dhvani prayers must be recited.
- xv) The altar and floor should be cleansed by separate cloths.
5. If the full ārati is not possible, a condensed ārati may be
performed, wherein only the following three items could
be offered:
- i) Incense
- i) Flowers
- ii) Cāmara fan
6. There are many other detailed rules and regulations for Deity
worship. Devotees who wish to know more may contact the Head
Pujari at the Temple.
7. One must remember however, that most important element of
Deity worship is that all the items must be offered with sincere
feeling and devotion.
For Prema dhvani
prayers Please See
Appendix IV..(Pg No. 37)
Ekādaśī is a day of fasting observed by all devotees. Śrila Prabhupāda
usually observed Ekādaśī fast in the simplest manner prescribed in
scripture – by refraining from eating grains, beans, peas and dahl.
Some devotees eat only fruit on Ekādaśī, some take only water and
some fully fast (this is called Nirjala-vrata).
All devotees must avoid the following foods on Ekādaśī – all grains
(wheat, rice, etc.), dahl, peas, bean type vegetables, mustard seeds and
their derivatives (wheat flour, mustard oil, etc.) and food items
containing these products.
Be careful in using powdered spices. If mixed with flour, they cannot
be used on Ekādaśī. Also one should avoid powdered asafoetida (hing)
since it contains grains.
Sesame seeds are also to be avoided, except on Ṣaṭ-tilā Ekādaśī, when
they may be offered and eaten.
One who is very strictly observing Ekādaśī should avoid all spices
except pepper, rock salt and cumin.
Do not use any cooking ingredients that might be mixed with grains,
such as ghee that has been used to fry purīs, or spices touched by hands
dusted with capāti flour. Try to use fresh ghee on Ekādaśī.
Ekādaśī fast is broken the next day (Dvādaśī), by taking prasādam
prepared with grains. The fast must be broken within a specific time.
For the dates of Ekādaśīs and the times for breaking fast, consult the
Vaiṣṇava calendar (available from any ISKCON centre).
The real purpose of Ekādaśī observance is however, not simply to fast,
but to increase our time for hearing and chanting about Lord Kṛṣṇa. Śrila
Prabhupāda recommended that devotees can chant twenty-five or more
rounds of japa on Ekādaśī.
Shaving and cutting nails is also forbidden on Ekādaśī.
Dāsa
Goswāmī in the Caitanya Caritāmrita:
Supreme indeed is the path of devotional Service!
All Glories To Śri Guru And Gaurāṅga!
"Do not talk like people in general or hear
what they say. You should not eat palatable
food, nor should you dress very nicely."
"Do not expect honour, but offer all respect to
others. Always chant the Holy Name of Lord
Kṛṣṇa and within your mind render service to
Radha and Kṛṣṇa in Vṛndāvana."